"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Logistics problem

Chamber36

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Yo dudes. Got a number and make-out last night. Was planning on meeting with her during the Christmas holidays, which I said I would do, but I'm at my mom's place so there would be no way for me to bone her.

I will be back in my own apartment in about 2 weeks. I would prefer to meet up with her over there so I can bone her, but I don't want to wait.

Asked my friend for advice, he says just meet with her after the holidays. The idea just seems backward because after the holidays I've got to worry about school.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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