"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Log of msn chat with HB 9

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Newgame said:
leave you a loving message ahahha what a nerd

HB9 says:
haha tahts y u love me
Newgame says:
it's hard to love such a dork lol
HB9 says:
haha but u do anywayz
Newgame says:
what a brat
HB9 says:
no im not..
Newgame says:
haha so what is it, nerd or brat?
HB9 says:
i cna b both..and more
Newgame says:
more...
Newgame says:
oh you mean nerd dork and brat ?
HB9 says:
yep..among others
Newgame says:
... slow snowboarder
HB9 says:
omg no im not!!!
Newgame says:
unsafe lifeguard too
HB9 says:
ur just sayiong that so it makes u look better and faster
Newgame says:
the girl hit her headl ol
Newgame says:
she probally remember who she is anymore
HB9 says:
haha omg dont say that..if she hit her head hard she wud have cried and complained..not just walk up and keep jumping
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
I know your fiending for your first rescue
Newgame says:
keep waiting girlll
HB9 says:
IM DYING FOR A RESCUE
Newgame says:
easy
Newgame says:
bring (a guy she was seeing) to the basketball court
Newgame says:
wen he goes to jump
Newgame says:
you come and rescue him from all the embarassment lol
HB9says:
haha omg ur soo mean
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
#1 high jumper lol
HB9 says:
hahha omg soo mean!
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
yesterday you laughed at all those jokes
Newgame says:
that means your just as bad !
HB9says:
yes i know..their funny..but still!
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
it's too late
Newgame says:
you can't undo the laughter
Newgame says:
we all saw you lol
HB9 says:
hahha fine i wont undo the laughter..but i can still say its not nice..he knows im not nice
Newgame says:
ok boo boo
Newgame says:
so when should i come pick up (her coworker)?
HB9 says:
hahha when ever u like..i dont know wta her sched is thou
Newgame says:
so what do you think HB9
Newgame says:
your like my wingwoman
Newgame says:
go for her or not?
Newgame says:
thumbs up or thumbs down
HB9 says:
if u think u have a chance..go for it
Newgame says:
lol a chance?
Newgame says:
you crazy
Newgame says:
it's in the bag
Newgame says:
you heard her call me a smoothtalker lol
Newgame says:
I was just asking you what you think
HB9 says:
hahha umm go for it..cant promise shell respond..but it wont hurt to try
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
you give off low confidence
Newgame says:
it radiates off you
Newgame says:
your acting like pat?
HB9 says:
srry but she seems like tough cookie..and i know as a fact shes rlly rlly shallow..i dont know if shed date younger
HB9 says:
IM NOT LIKE PAT!!
Newgame says:
yes you are
Newgame says:
i'll tell her im 19
Newgame says:
it's not lyin it's flirtin
HB9 says:
HAHAHA oh god..ok well i know shes teaching the LIT's starting next week, but i dont know wat her sched is this week
Newgame says:
it's cool
Newgame says:
im coming anyways with some friends wednesday it's our day off
Newgame says:
we worked all day and again tomorow.
HB9 says:
...ouch....gr8 i work again wed..i have to see u again...damn it
Newgame says:
you love it
Newgame says:
we should ruin your day by hitting up somewhere else this time
HB9 says:
hahha now that wud def ruin my day
Newgame says:
hold on phone
HB9 says:
lol k
Newgame says:
I'm going to go see a friend
Newgame says:
see ya wednesday dork
HB9 says:
bye xo

So what do you guys think? Go tap that wednesday? Any critism or sticking points appreciated.

- Newgame
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dude, I usually don't have a chance to say this much, but you played C&F perfectly. Awesome, way to go. It's not only C&F and being aloof but you also conveyed your playful attitude towards this girl when you said;

Newgame says:
I know your fiending for your first rescue
Newgame says:
keep waiting girlll
HB9 says:
IM DYING FOR A RESCUE
Newgame says:
easy
Newgame says:
bring (a guy she was seeing) to the basketball court
Newgame says:
wen he goes to jump
Newgame says:
you come and rescue him from all the embarassment lol
HB9says:
haha omg ur soo mean
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
#1 high jumper lol
HB9 says:
hahha omg soo mean!
Newgame says:
lol
Newgame says:
yesterday you laughed at all those jokes
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Tottally hit that, if available. (or not) I think you killed it. I can't pick out anything that needs improving on. You were C&F, playfull, confident, and demonstrated how one can use C&F in everyday situations;

Newgame says:
oh you mean nerd dork and brat ?
HB9 says:
yep..among others
Newgame says:
... slow snowboarder
HB9 says:
omg no im not!!!
Newgame says:
unsafe lifeguard too
HB9 says:
ur just sayiong that so it makes u look better and faster
Newgame says:
the girl hit her headl ol
Newgame says:
she probally remember who she is anymore
HB9 says:
haha omg dont say that..if she hit her head hard she wud have cried and complained..not just walk up and keep jumping
Newgame says:
lol
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Sure as hell beats remembering lines. Keep rockin' --> :rockon:
 
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I still don't feel all that confident about it still.

It was an online chat after all.
 
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You had a good run with her, it's not bad.

I just had a onliney ask me out last night over the phone....just on the rebound, and I didn't do anything!!!

Her: Guess what?
Me: What?
Her: Pat broke up with me!! =( *weakness in voice*
Me: Awwn....trust me, all guys I meet are *******s!
Her: Yeah, but you're a guy!
Me: But I haven't met myself, I dont' know if I'm an *******s!
Her: Maybe, so, you're my new boyfriend alright?
Me: *scramble!!*, uhh, yeah sure, alrighty.............so what's my girlfriend like?
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Yeah, that was unexpected, so I'm 'taken' at the moment, I have choice, she said it didn't matter if we went out or not, but she was serious about the whole thing. Whew, 3 girls and I'm trying to pick one! Damnit XD
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs good job bro, I like how you played that. She was seeking some kind of comfort or validation from you and you just confused her with your ****y playfullness. She wants you man :rockon:
 
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Newgame - Online is GREAT practice because you can proofread what you say and it gives you practice. But at the end of the day, you have to do it in real life.

Offcourse do it - good luck!
 
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D99, I know man, my name says it all. I'm getting there though :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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