"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Locking threads, while everyone is being as civil as can be about trolls?

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Either I have seen too much here on SoSuave.
Very much I would like to make this place so much better.
Enter IRL and ugly asian guy.
Really?
You know what you must do, but you do not...
But there must be standards for SoSuave
Or is that we have given up?
Did the moderators give up?
You NEED to ban anyone that sets off that instinct
Do it already!
Are you a moderator or not?
Not once has a troll been removed immediately.
Can you even do your job?
Every time I see a troll, I cringe.
Not once have they been dealt with immediately
Only I can hope that SoSuave was once what it was
Wouldn't members be much better off?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mod has already replied to the previous troll thread... OP is looking at a banning if he don't shut up :p haha
 
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Maybe you should look at the beginning of how SoSuave was built. It was a community of ideas. As of late , it's been along lines of individual ideas; Sages, Trolls, Troopers, Sarges, and others all have their own ideas. Call capitalism if you will, it's all divided among the SoSuave community.
 
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Are you aware that you're bothering about changing SoSuave a little too much, the same way the AFC tries to change the world instead of himself?

You care too much. Remember to be indifferent, don't let the "trolls" get the better of you.
 
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To be honest Grewd,
Rationalize what you just said to me
Out of nowhere you sent me a PM
Like I care too much?
Living how others want me to?
Educate yourself on the DJ mindset and indifference
Don't discredit those that have done so already
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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