"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Locking threads, while everyone is being as civil as can be about trolls?

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Either I have seen too much here on SoSuave.
Very much I would like to make this place so much better.
Enter IRL and ugly asian guy.
Really?
You know what you must do, but you do not...
But there must be standards for SoSuave
Or is that we have given up?
Did the moderators give up?
You NEED to ban anyone that sets off that instinct
Do it already!
Are you a moderator or not?
Not once has a troll been removed immediately.
Can you even do your job?
Every time I see a troll, I cringe.
Not once have they been dealt with immediately
Only I can hope that SoSuave was once what it was
Wouldn't members be much better off?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mod has already replied to the previous troll thread... OP is looking at a banning if he don't shut up :p haha
 
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Maybe you should look at the beginning of how SoSuave was built. It was a community of ideas. As of late , it's been along lines of individual ideas; Sages, Trolls, Troopers, Sarges, and others all have their own ideas. Call capitalism if you will, it's all divided among the SoSuave community.
 

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Are you aware that you're bothering about changing SoSuave a little too much, the same way the AFC tries to change the world instead of himself?

You care too much. Remember to be indifferent, don't let the "trolls" get the better of you.
 
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To be honest Grewd,
Rationalize what you just said to me
Out of nowhere you sent me a PM
Like I care too much?
Living how others want me to?
Educate yourself on the DJ mindset and indifference
Don't discredit those that have done so already
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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