Location putting a wrench in my game

[AttackFormation]

So I was born liking what most of you guys don't, fat girls. I didn't choose the preference, it chose me. The problem is, which surely sounds ironic considering the complaints in general about them, there's not enough of them where I live/in my country. Girls here just aren't fat, and if they're chubby it's probably because they're just out of shape and frumpy/plain/ugly (think the feminist look) and not because they've got them hips going. I mean there's some of them around, but it's too rare to be anywhere close to a reliable find. Which also means if I do find something I automatically get a scarcity frame, because they are scarce. I just can't force myself to talk to girls I don't even really want to fvck just because I should/need to and I'm tired of doing so.

What the f*ck would you do, in my situation? I guess not much lol.

 

[dustmuffin]

I would just f uck them all. Work on your game with the skinny girls. Stop complaining and get busy. How old are you? When I was younger I came up with all kinds of excuses for women that wernt good enough for me to f uck. They had small tits.....No ass....Blah Blah Blah. Now I regret it. I should have plowed every single one of them. Don't be me. Screw every girl you can....No regrets.....

 

[fastlife]

@dustmuffin nailed it. Rollo has a great article about the 'buffers' we use to avoid rejection here.

A LOT of the time, our physical preference for attraction is a buffer: we either go for girls who resemble girls we've had success with in the past (since we think we have a better chance with these girls to avoid rejection) or we go for girls who are exceedingly rare in our environment (to rationalize not having to face immediate rejection).

As for the BOTH problems, the more girls you get with, the more 'types' of girls--physically & personality-wise--you realize you have chemistry with. Your type now won't necessarily be your type in 10 years (in fact, if you're getting a taste of variety, I can almost assure you it won't be). For instance, there's been times in my life, I only liked girls with dark hair, until I had some awesome experiences with blondes. There's been times in my life I only liked girls with fat azzes, til I had some awesome experience with spinners. There's been times in my life I only liked short girls, til I had a tall girl or two rock my world. One of my most hard-headed rationalizations was that I only liked 'girls who were 10's'--which is a great way to avoid rejection. I could go out every weekend for a month and rationalize not approaching a single girl--'None of them met my standards.' But the truth is, I've had great times with girls who might not be total bombshells.

I'd say open your mind and approach--even if you don't think you're attracted to a girl; if you find after giving her a fair shake that you find yourself attracted (listening to your body and not your mind)--go for it. The past year or so, I've had awesome times with girls I wouldn't have given a second look at 4 or 5 years ago. Or you might find that even after experiencing all different types of women, you still have a preference for bigger girls, move. But it's like only having tasted chocolate icecream or maybe only chocolate and a tiny bit of vanilla and saying, "Well, I don't like any other flavors of icecream other than chocolate."

 

[CMNILS87]

I have to ask, what is it about chubby chicks that you find attractive? Definitely to each ones own, but still... I was with a few girls that were heavier and just the site of the rolls bouncing where they shouldn't, ***** didn't look tight like it should, they were self conscious about their bodies, etc etc..

 

[AttackFormation]

I would just f uck them all. Work on your game with the skinny girls. Stop complaining and get busy. How old are you? When I was younger I came up with all kinds of excuses for women that wernt good enough for me to f uck. They had small tits.....No ass....Blah Blah Blah. Now I regret it. I should have plowed every single one of them. Don't be me. Screw every girl you can....No regrets.....

I already stay sharp by talking to anyone and everyone. But never getting what you want gets dull.

@dustmuffin nailed it. Rollo has a great article about the 'buffers' we use to avoid rejection here.

A LOT of the time, our physical preference for attraction is a buffer: we either go for girls who resemble girls we've had success with in the past (since we think we have a better chance with these girls to avoid rejection) or we go for girls who are exceedingly rare in our environment (to rationalize not having to face immediate rejection).

As for the BOTH problems, the more girls you get with, the more 'types' of girls--physically & personality-wise--you realize you have chemistry with. Your type now won't necessarily be your type in 10 years (in fact, if you're getting a taste of variety, I can almost assure you it won't be). For instance, there's been times in my life, I only liked girls with dark hair, until I had some awesome experiences with blondes. There's been times in my life I only liked girls with fat azzes, til I had some awesome experience with spinners. There's been times in my life I only liked short girls, til I had a tall girl or two rock my world. One of my most hard-headed rationalizations was that I only liked 'girls who were 10's'--which is a great way to avoid rejection. I could go out every weekend for a month and rationalize not approaching a single girl--'None of them met my standards.' But the truth is, I've had great times with girls who might not be total bombshells.

I'd say open your mind and approach--even if you don't think you're attracted to a girl; if you find after giving her a fair shake that you find yourself attracted (listening to your body and not your mind)--go for it. The past year or so, I've had awesome times with girls I wouldn't have given a second look at 4 or 5 years ago. Or you might find that even after experiencing all different types of women, you still have a preference for bigger girls, move. But it's like only having tasted chocolate icecream or maybe only chocolate and a tiny bit of vanilla and saying, "Well, I don't like any other flavors of icecream other than chocolate."

I don't think it's a buffer by now. I definitely used it as one in the past to avoid having to work on my game in general when I was completely green, but now I'm just not interested in skinny chicks except in the regard they still have nice chirpy voices and a pvssy. I can still like those girls, but not in a "god I want to fvck that" sense. Guess there's not much to say really... I'll make an effort to keep my approach more open, that makes you appreciate life more anyway.

I have to ask, what is it about chubby chicks that you find attractive? Definitely to each ones own, but still... I was with a few girls that were heavier and just the site of the rolls bouncing where they shouldn't, ***** didn't look tight like it should, they were self conscious about their bodies, etc etc..

Just like a girl isn't attractive to you only because she's slim, a girl isn't attractive to me just because she isn't. Other than that, I dunno/don't care about the exact reasons, but I know it makes my d!ck hard so that's what I go on.

Immigrate to the USA ASAP

Believe it or not but I was actually just there, came home yesterday. Where are you at? Just waiting in the airports for my flights there, I saw more fat girls I'd wanna fvck than I've seen here all my life lol.