Location matters to my brown brothers

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Dhoulmagus

Banned

Feb 27, 2016

If you are Asian then get your ass to Atlanta or something because they do well there. If you are black then get your ass out of the Eastern part of America because the people there are racist as hell towards yall. If you are white then get out of California/any major US city besides the south and go to the southeast. I'm a black guy in North Dakota and already have 4 dates this weekend. It's so rare to me that the girls don't think I'm taking them seriously wif. That is all yall.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.