Lmfao women..

[Jhcl4000]

Girl approaches me at bar, don't get her number. She looks me up on Facebook, messages me her number and says we should hang out again. We hang out the next couple days, she's all over me, acting clingy, saying relationshippy sh!t, we have sex. She flakes two dates two days in a row due to change in work schedule. Thought it was bullsh!t, but she invited me to chill at a bar with her and friends the next night. Get there, I'm tired, have bad body language, acting anti-social, uninterested, ect.. She pretty much avoids me the entire night because of this. Think of when a teenager is mad at their parent(s) - purposely trying not to acknowledge me. Also, her and one of her guy "friends" from high-school were flirting the entire night. End of the night she walks me back to my car and says we should hang out again and also texts me on my way home asking if I'm home. Lmfao what? After she avoids me the entire night, flirts with another guy, and doesn't even want to kiss me (gave me a little peck on the lips) at the end of the night, she says we should hang out again and asks if I got home safe?

Mind = blown

 

[st_99]

girls that are aggresive and do the approaching are usually in charge from start to finish. it should be the other way around.

 

[youngmack]

girls that are aggresive and do the approaching are usually in charge from start to finish. it should be the other way around.

Yeah ^^ Don't overthink things, just move on and get some other plates, Nothing more..Nothing less... NEXT !

 

[perseverance]

You were acting disinterested and this annoyed her, so she wanted to get a reaction out of you, she wanted to see you become interested and show her attention.

She's playing the push and pull game with you, because she doesn't know where she stands with you. I'd just tell her to "jog on" and look for someone who isn't an immature idiot.

Though the important lesson here is not to go out if you are not feeling up to it. She flaked on you twice, so you should have no qualms about being punctual.

 

[Korrupt]

You already banged the chick. It's YOUR game to play. You already won. She's being a *****, avoiding you, flirting with other guys, ect..? So what? You already banged her. You've got the notch on your belt. Women are always complaining about how they'll f*ck guys, then they don't get a call back. Stop caring. It's her turn to play the game. And LOL at her saying she wants to hang out again, then also texting you asking if you got home. You probably increased the crazy *****es interest last night.

Also, I found this just today..

"Your girlfriend can be flirting with other guys for a multitude of other reasons. All of them come from her need to maximize rapport.

Flirting with other guys is an easy way to solve her problem for rapport. The two possible results are:

A. She gets attention from other guys
B. You get jealous and she gets more attention from you

It is the essence of female manipulation and if you’ll take a second to realize, it is a subconscious technique, ingrained into their minds. No woman thinks “I need to flirt with another guy to fulfill my biological need for attention,” they just do. Unlike men who have to consciously utilize game (and still suffer from reductive understanding), women have an innate ability to leverage sexual dynamics.

Even if a girl is NOT interested in another guy or would NEVER consider cheating on her boyfriend, she would STILL be inclined to flirt with other guys because it gives her MORE MALE ATTENTION without making her suffer from any ethical repercussions.

If you’ve been following me thus far, then the final revelation will make everything clear for you. If you act jealous when your girlfriend flirts with other guys, then you REINFORCE her need to flirt with other guys. If she is able to get MORE ATTENTION from you (yes, yelling and fighting is a form of attention. In her eyes, it reminds her that you are desperate for her) then she will only TEMPORARILY stop engaging in promiscuous behavior, and then start again when she feels the need for a chemical rush."

http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/2...us-girlfriend/

Lots of other great articles there too.

EDIT: Also see Perseverance's post above mine.

 

[Robert28]

girl sounds like a bar bum to me. you said she flaked on you twice on two dates in a row, but the next meet up she suggested you come out to the bar. in other words she doesn't want a one on one DATE with you, but mention the word "bar" and all of a sudden she's free.lol some girls honestly are drunks and can't seem to have any sort of fun doing anything else unless they are at a bar. i see it a lot around here, same girls go out to the same bars every fvcking weekend and all during the week. they'll probably end up dying in the bar, hell that's probably why they even have a job so they can fund their bar goings so frequently. i'm at the age where the LAST place i want to go to is a bar. i mean sure i'll go meet up with my guy friends sometimes, but not every d@mn weekend! i've got other sh!t to do. i can not go to a bar for 2 months and then go back and see the SAME fvcking girls in there that were in there 2 months ago. it's like dejavu when you walk in.

i think this is why you hear so many people say "finding someone in a bar to date is a bad idea" because take a look around. it's the SAME women there all the time and the same low life men that chase them hoping to "get a chance with them" and become their little "bar circle of friends" that they want to introduce EVERY fvcking guy they meet outside of the bar. it's like their own little family or something.

 

[Jhcl4000]

Thanks for the input. I just find it weird as hell that she'd treat me like the plague the entire night then say we should hang out again at the end of the night. Makes no sense.

And I went even though I was tired because she was leaving for a 2 week vacation the next morning.

 

[Robert28]

Thanks for the input. I just find it weird as hell that she'd treat me like the plague the entire night then say we should hang out again at the end of the night. Makes no sense.

makes PERFECT sense. she's a bar slut, that's what they do.

 

[Jhcl4000]

Don't think me and this chick are on the same wavelength. She texted me last night when I was out on a date..

Her: Hey you
Me: Hey *name*, How's *city*?
Her: Good. How are ya?
Me: Doing good. Just out in *city* having a drink with a buddy.
Her: Fun. You need to have a drink with me once I'm back.
Me: I agree. And you need to come to *my city* so I can take you out for that drink.
Her: Mmk. Send me a sexy pic later ha (at this point it's passed 12AM, so "later," at least to me, means tomorrow or sometime soon this week)
Me: Haha I'll surprise you with one (meaning surprise her with one in the next few days)
Her: Love it! IF I get one I'll send you one
Me: Sounds good to me

Am I the idiot here? Because in my mind I'm supposed to surprise her with a pic later - meaning in the next few days. I get a text close to 3am from her after I get home and when I'm about to go to bed..

Her: Still waiting hun!

I was just thinking "wtf?"

Me: I meant that I'd surprise you with one in the next couple days lol. It's not much of a surprise tonight, is it?
Her: Disappointment

Once again.. "Wtf?"

"Disappointment." A very childish response in my opinion. Like she's, once again, throwing a temper tantrum because she's not getting what she wants. Needless to say it urked me and I went to bed without responding.

I mean, she really couldn't have just not been a b!tch and said: "Oh lol. Well I look forward to your surprise " or something? Anyways, I'm torn between sending her a couple "sexy" pics tomorrow and saying "still disappointed? " or just not texting her at all.

 

[SoSuave666]

Dude....she was drunk and horny lookin for a pic. How did you not sense that?

 

[Jhcl4000]

Dude....she was drunk and horny lookin for a pic. How did you not sense that?

Jeez I say "later" all the time and I usually always mean between 24 hours and one week later. I guess I've confused a lot of people.