"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LMAO just realized that this chick fvcked me so I'd leave her alone...

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Met this chick from OkCupid a loooong time ago. Months - maybe even a year+ ago. She came over and we would have fvcked, but she said she was on her period so we didn't. She's also in an "open" relationship with a guy who lives 3+ hours away.

Anyways, I couldn't get her to hangout again and eventually called her out. She, of course, never admitted that she was bulsh!tting, and we, of course, never hung out. Well I continued to hit her up about once a month. Most of the time she wouldn't respond, and when she did she would ask "who is this," then when I'd tell her she'd ignore me. So about two weeks ago I hit her up and, miraculously, was able to set up a date (after she asked me "if we hang out, you're not going to get all weird and text me all the time, are you?") So she comes over a couple days later, we fvck, it's good, she says she's going to see her boyfriend the next day, I tell her to hit me up when she gets back, and she agrees and leaves. Guess what? 10 days later - no text from her. I shoot her a text saying we should hang out - no text back.

Only thing I can think of is that she fvcked me so I would be "satisfied" and would leave her alone.

Only time in history being "creepy" has worked?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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no offense man but you comin off as kinda desperate and needy. Stop messaging her...she obviously is going balls deep whith multiple other guys and you've been put on the backburner( best case scenario). She doesn't care much for you and her interest level is pretty low. She probably just checks her phone , sees a msg from you then laughes and puts her phone back in her bag ; contemplating only to maybe respond if everyone else has fallen through( best case scenario).

1. get off dating sites
2. delete her number
3. hit up real world
 

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bigblock7 said:
no offense man but you comin off as kinda desperate and needy. Stop messaging her...she obviously is going balls deep whith multiple other guys and you've been put on the backburner( best case scenario). She doesn't care much for you and her interest level is pretty low. She probably just checks her phone , sees a msg from you then laughes and puts her phone back in her bag ; contemplating only to maybe respond if everyone else has fallen through( best case scenario).

1. get off dating sites
2. delete her number
3. hit up real world
Seriously? You new posters here make me :crackup:
 

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i agree with the new guy, i would have deleted her number a long long time ago...like after the first time she ignored me...
 

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Korrupt said:
(after she asked me "if we hang out, you're not going to get all weird and text me all the time, are you?")
this sh1t is hilarious..

sometimes you just gotta push the sale, 'make the ho say no' :cheer:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zinc4 said:
i agree with the new guy, i would have deleted her number a long long time ago...like after the first time she ignored me...
Well I got it, sooo...
 

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Don't text this chick again unless she texts you first.
 

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Korrupt said:
Well I got it, sooo...

Yep, you banged her now be finished with her...she is getting massive ego boosts from you.....plus she has a BF....just one big waste of time...you got what you wanted though so ditch her...

And if you did want to bang her again you should have never texted her after you finally got what you wanted to show her that she is expendable now that you sexted her....then she would have been crawling back eventually realizing she was getting pumped and dumped.....

But me personally, i don't see what is the point messing around with a chick who has a BF....there are so many single girls out there.....
 
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