Ok, so I know these are possibly the worst words you can hear from a chick that you are pursuing. However, I was thinking about turning the table and dropping these lines on the chick herself.
Since they use it on us, I wanna experiment and see the results when I use it on them :rockon: I think it sends all the right signals. It tells her that you have options, you are patient, you aren't just another guy trying to get in her pants. It also makes you a bit mysterious, and forces her to second guess herself (you're making her validate/qualify herself to you), and lastly you're presenting somewhat of a challenge to her.
However this can also probably backfire. She may think you just wanna be friends and she may move on, or she may only see you as friend because of what you said. She may also think your gay, especially if she's hot (no guy has ever said this to me!)
However, I'm going to try this on chicks where I know there is a mutual attraction. Like maybe we have been on a few dates, have made out a few times. And then tell her, "lets just be friends for now." If she's attracted to you and she's decent looking, this will throw her for a major spin.
Logically speaking, it clearly works on us guys. What do we do when we hear those dreaded lines? Exactly...we try harder. So why wouldn't it work on them. Also, if they're good looking, I really doubt they have ever heard this from any guys they were seeing. So this is definitely going to shock them
Lastly the reason why I'm doing this is because at the moment I have some options, and i don't wanna fully committ to every girl that I'm seeing right now. I just wanna play the field, and see what happens. It's a bit risky, but the whole idea of saying "lets just be friends" is to make them try harder, present a challenge, and ultimately increase attraction.
Tell me what you guys think...
Since they use it on us, I wanna experiment and see the results when I use it on them :rockon: I think it sends all the right signals. It tells her that you have options, you are patient, you aren't just another guy trying to get in her pants. It also makes you a bit mysterious, and forces her to second guess herself (you're making her validate/qualify herself to you), and lastly you're presenting somewhat of a challenge to her.
However this can also probably backfire. She may think you just wanna be friends and she may move on, or she may only see you as friend because of what you said. She may also think your gay, especially if she's hot (no guy has ever said this to me!)
However, I'm going to try this on chicks where I know there is a mutual attraction. Like maybe we have been on a few dates, have made out a few times. And then tell her, "lets just be friends for now." If she's attracted to you and she's decent looking, this will throw her for a major spin.
Logically speaking, it clearly works on us guys. What do we do when we hear those dreaded lines? Exactly...we try harder. So why wouldn't it work on them. Also, if they're good looking, I really doubt they have ever heard this from any guys they were seeing. So this is definitely going to shock them
Lastly the reason why I'm doing this is because at the moment I have some options, and i don't wanna fully committ to every girl that I'm seeing right now. I just wanna play the field, and see what happens. It's a bit risky, but the whole idea of saying "lets just be friends" is to make them try harder, present a challenge, and ultimately increase attraction.
Tell me what you guys think...