LJBF: Was it a d**k move to just leave her there?

[Tomo]

If you guys have read back, then you know the story. After some time away we talked about what happened and how things were going. I was going to drop her off at the airport at the same time as she was leaving. I stayed indifferent throughout although at times it took a while for me to think and articulate what I wanted to say.

Basically I got 'lets just be friends' and all the excuses and furthermore an insight into her relationship/ sexual past - damaged goods regardless of how nice and personality gel'ed we were.

I made sure we left on good terms then told bailed faster than a speeding bullet. Basically I left her balling her eyes out. I think she was surprised about this thinking I would have stayed. She can find her own way to the airport. Was this the right thing to do? To be honest I don't feel remorse or guilt. The old me would have wished her well all the while keeping in touch and dropped her off at the airport while carrying her luggage. Me now, does not.

 

[adam225]

Yeah of course. She "just wants to be friends" after all. In other words > she spent 2-3 months b1tchin about you behind your back and calling you ever name under the sun to her friends/family. You get a "well done" for being strong minded from me lol.

 

[Desdinova]

Anyone who's just started their journey to being a true Don Juan is going to do things a little too extreme in the opposite direction. You'll find yourself doing things before that you wouldn't have had the ba11s to do in the past, but it's not necessarily a bad thing. You will eventually find the middle ground that works in your favor.

Was it a d1ck move? Maybe. Personally, I have no desire to waste my time with a female "friend only" who I'm sexually attracted to. You probably should have ditched her earlier, but late is better than developing one-itis, hoping that she'll eventually change her mind.