LJBF question for the experts

[Ice_Berg_1]

What's the deal with chicks who want to be "just friends" but then want to act they're your girl, minus the physical part. I've got female friends who I'm not really attracted to and I've got female friends who don't show signs of wanting anything more, then there is the ones who say they want to only be friends but all things indicate a high interest level. I'm talking about body language, them initiating kino, laughing at things that aren't really funny, getting jealous when you're with other women, not wanting to bring you around certain female friends of hers. I mean where's the logic? What is this type of girls agenda and is there any early warning signs that would indicate a girl is gonna pull this type B.S. I mean I don't expect every female I want to get with to feel the same way, and I understand that. But, I'm pretty good at determinig if a girl is into me or not, and I'm not the type to waste my time on lost causes.

 

[flexion_]

"where's the logic"

You are dealing with a creature driven by emotion not by logic. Suffice it say that you will never figure them out aside from knowing that a LJBF means just that.

 

[SeldomSeen]

RE:

just depends on the situation. Sometimes a woman wants to be your friend because she has sexual interest in you but doesnt see you as RELATIONSHIP material and other times she has no intimate feelings for you at all.

 

[Ice_Berg_1]

just depends on the situation. Sometimes a woman wants to be your friend because she has sexual interest in you but doesnt see you as RELATIONSHIP material and other times she has no intimate feelings for you at all.


So are these types of girls iterested in having "no strings" sex?

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by Ice_Berg_1
then there is the ones who say they want to only be friends but all things indicate a high interest level. I'm talking about body language, them initiating kino, laughing at things that aren't really funny, getting jealous when you're with other women, not wanting to bring you around certain female friends of hers. I mean where's the logic? What is this type of girls agenda and is there any early warning signs that would indicate a girl is gonna pull this type B.S. I mean I don't expect every female I want to get with to feel the same way, and I understand that. But, I'm pretty good at determinig if a girl is into me or not, and I'm not the type to waste my time on lost causes.

i know the feeling. ive been in similar situations myself. im sure girls like these will always have a hidden agenda that's never going to get out in the open.

just depends on the situation. Sometimes a woman wants to be your friend because she has sexual interest in you but doesnt see you as RELATIONSHIP material and other times she has no intimate feelings for you at all.

Truer words have never been spoken. i suppose you could just date these type of girls casually. more specifically i mean have the friendship and benefits to it at the same time.

So are these types of girls iterested in having "no strings" sex?

u wont know until its brought up. ask yourself this does the sex come before or after the friendship?