"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LJBF or not?

mastersF

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Hello guys. I've a situation that i didn't know how to respond to... There is this classmate that i've been going out with since november last year, and when i asked her to be my gf today she said "dont u think its too fast?" what should i do in situations like this and what can i do now? it is not exactly a LJBF right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taviii

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Since november there are more than 3 months. If you dindt get a kiss in allthis time you can forget it.
 

Phat

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man.. that girl is a waiste of ur dam time..if u havnt got a kiss from her in those 3 monthes forget it..

Shes bull****tin man.
 
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