"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ljbf or not. What do you think?

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I have another question here guys, am Im confused or getting mixed signals. My ljbf girl friend told me about 5 years ago that she knew I had a crush on her in college but wasnt mutually attrcted beyond friendship at that time. (key word).


Now since that time, we have actually become very close friends even though we havent actually been in physical contact since college. I assumed that I am stuck in the ljbf zone and thats it.

Now college has been quite a while back for us. 1989 to be exact. Now at this point, 99.999999 percent of anyone reading this would say NEXT.. Buuuuuuttttt I have a question.

She works as an amature model. Here just a month ago out of the bluesky, she sends me a picture (A Very seductive picture of her in a bakini with a police officers uniform "partially" on. )

If she sees me as just a friend. why would she have sent a provoctive picture like that? I personally would not send a girl a half nude picture if I wasnt mutually interested. (but thats just me) What do you think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by leeman67


If she sees me as just a friend. why would she have sent a provoctive picture like that? I personally would not send a girl a half nude picture if I wasnt mutually interested.
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Because your a guy. Shes a chick she gains sh!t that holds no interest to a man by dangling the seductive carrot, another beta on her team of ego and emotional boosters. Have you recently been paying her less attention and getting on with your life?

As your probably aware its extremely difficult to get out friends zone, even with the tiniest chances she is all of a sudden seeing you as a potential sexual mate your only viable option is forget about her and start nailing other chicks if you want to increase your chances of ever seeing her with her pants off. Although judging by your post and the information you gave I wouldnt hold your breath.
 
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I would straight up say this, "That is an interesting photo you sent me, is this your latest attempt to get me to drool...no, actually I think this is your new way to pick me up."
 
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