"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LJBF or mixed signals?

DaturaX

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I am stuck in this situation. There's this girl who I know through a group of friends. We were childhood friends but we lost contact since we were 12 (we're 25 now) and recently have been hanging out again.

Anyway, both of us pretty much share the same interest. I was able to get high IL from her from the past 3 get together with much kino but I havent found a chance to escalate this. I have been getting **** tests like "What age will you get married?", you know those kinda bf qualifying questions. I pretty much passed those **** tests.

Now, the question is how do I escalate this to the next level? I am a pretty busy guy as I work long hours and I still have to juggle night classes for my post-grad studies. So you can be sure I am not the needy AFC guy next door guy. I only call her up to fix dates, no fluff talk on the phone.

So how do i escalate this to the next level? and did I get LJBF when I get a msg from msn "I am good, friend"? Or was this another **** test?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker

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if you have known someone for half your life and still haven't hit it.... that's as LJBF as LJBF gets
 

foomee

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Yeah... just keep her as a good friend and have her hook you up with some of her friends. She'll wanna keep you as a friend, cos that's all you've ever been and I doubt she's gonna wanna end up ruining the relationship. I know it sucks, thought you had a chance, but you don't :/
 
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