LJBF/Oneitis Playing Tricks on my mind

[Bluesteak]

WARNING= This thread reeks of AFC-ness so no flaming is needed

So after about 2 years, my oneitis/ljbf (lets call her Blondie), I finally started to get over her and began using her as a pivot(like 3 weeks ago). Until recently she was hanging out and all of a sudden shes using heavy kino and basically being a **** tease. Thanks to the dj forums, I was able to spot this as her trying to reel me back in so i backed off and just ignored it. A week ago her friend invites me to a costume party this Thursday night and Blondie and 3 of her closer friends who hang out with me quite often are sleeping there after the party, Blondie was surprised tonight when I told her i will be attending her friends party. I asked if it would be ok to sleep there so i don't have to drive home. On the subject of the party, Blondie says will you be mad if I tell you something, i say w/e, and she says "I don't want you to be judgmental, but I am probably going to make out with another guy, so don't get mad". Im like whats new. The problem is what am i supposed to say to that, I am almost positive that she knows i like her and have oneitis. Should I say peace out and never talk to her again?, and its hard to game other girls when shes at the same party. Although i am in the process of trying to get over her, seeing her hook up with someone would make me pissed. Should I not go??

Sorry again for the many sins i have done against the dj principles

 

[Rebound Material]

First of all, don't trip of your post is just jam packed with AFCness. I personally don't give a damn.

Its good that you woke up and realized what was REALLY going on between you and this chick. You pin-pointed the problem you had and I assume you took measures to fix it which caused this little AW to act the way she does now toward you.

Anyways, this chick DOES know for a fact that you dig her and thats why she told her girls to tell you that. I mean cmon...if you guys were friends to begin with, why would if matter if she macked some guy in front of you right? Its a spite move. Now the main question is: can you handle being in her presence as she macks other dudes in front of you? You answered this yourself and you said that you would be kinda pissed so it means that it does matter. All I can tell you is:

1) If you do decide to go, don't get too wasted in this party because everyone knows that alcohol is a truth serum...you might just act out of passion for this girl if you see her fooling around with some of her pawns and this would totally kill your composure with her.

2) BAIL. But if you do, give your friend a good reason for doing so. You forgot its your homeboys bday too, Some relatives flew in out of nowhere, You have a date, etc. You don't want to make it seem like you bailed just because of what she had told you. If anything, your female friend is more likely sided with your oneitis and whatever you tell her goes right to ms. oneitis.

Anyways, All power to you dude.

 

[The Sperminator]

Or you could go to the party ignore her and mack on a lot of other chicks. Trust me this will drive her nuts. I've done this to girls who said they weren't interested in me or were playing games with me and guess what at the end of the night they were all over me. Girls are jealous creatures. I've had girls straight out reject me but then saw me macking with some other girl and then tried to get with me. By going after other girls it shows that you don't care about her which bothers her, they want what they can't have, two it shows that you are wanted by other girls which makes you look more attractive, and three even if you don't get her you still get other hot girls. Oh and if she does try to get at you which she probably will sometime during the party don't give in. I know you will want to but it's a ****ing **** test. Don't make it obvious you are ignoring her but don't give her a lot of attention talk to her for a little bit then move on to other girls. At the end of the night she will be wondering why you don't like her anymore and then start chasing you. Trust me it works almost all the time.

 

[falcon814]

Or you could go to the party ignore her and mack on a lot of other chicks. Trust me this will drive her nuts. I've done this to girls who said they weren't interested in me or were playing games with me and guess what at the end of the night they were all over me. Girls are jealous creatures. I've had girls straight out reject me but then saw me macking with some other girl and then tried to get with me. By going after other girls it shows that you don't care about her which bothers her, they want what they can't have, two it shows that you are wanted by other girls which makes you look more attractive, and three even if you don't get her you still get other hot girls. Oh and if she does try to get at you which she probably will sometime during the party don't give in. I know you will want to but it's a ****ing **** test. Don't make it obvious you are ignoring her but don't give her a lot of attention talk to her for a little bit then move on to other girls. At the end of the night she will be wondering why you don't like her anymore and then start chasing you. Trust me it works almost all the time.

^^^ what he said. Im talking from experience also, thats the best way to handle the situation.

 

[Bluesteak]

I am going to the party, i am going to try to ignore her and make as much contact with other girls as possible.

 

[Rebound Material]

Or you could go to the party ignore her and mack on a lot of other chicks. Trust me this will drive her nuts. I've done this to girls who said they weren't interested in me or were playing games with me and guess what at the end of the night they were all over me. Girls are jealous creatures. I've had girls straight out reject me but then saw me macking with some other girl and then tried to get with me. By going after other girls it shows that you don't care about her which bothers her, they want what they can't have, two it shows that you are wanted by other girls which makes you look more attractive, and three even if you don't get her you still get other hot girls. Oh and if she does try to get at you which she probably will sometime during the party don't give in. I know you will want to but it's a ****ing **** test. Don't make it obvious you are ignoring her but don't give her a lot of attention talk to her for a little bit then move on to other girls. At the end of the night she will be wondering why you don't like her anymore and then start chasing you. Trust me it works almost all the time.

oh yea and that. Sorry, i forgot to add that last option in. Lets just hope your game is tight and is able to mack chicks at that party. Otherwise, youre gonna be left in the dust as your oneitis macks other dudes in front of you.

 

[jdjd]

u know if ur really stuck...dont know what to do ...or feels like ur at a dead end...

why not take a week or 2 off? and just dont do anything?

thats what i do...let it all rest...turn ur phone off or something...

 

[DJx420]

Or you could go to the party ignore her and mack on a lot of other chicks. Trust me this will drive her nuts. I've done this to girls who said they weren't interested in me or were playing games with me and guess what at the end of the night they were all over me. Girls are jealous creatures. I've had girls straight out reject me but then saw me macking with some other girl and then tried to get with me. By going after other girls it shows that you don't care about her which bothers her, they want what they can't have, two it shows that you are wanted by other girls which makes you look more attractive, and three even if you don't get her you still get other hot girls. Oh and if she does try to get at you which she probably will sometime during the party don't give in. I know you will want to but it's a ****ing **** test. Don't make it obvious you are ignoring her but don't give her a lot of attention talk to her for a little bit then move on to other girls. At the end of the night she will be wondering why you don't like her anymore and then start chasing you. Trust me it works almost all the time.

Hit it right here!

I persoanlly have been in this situatoin OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

This girl I've known for a while, HB9, has been my oneitis. Finally I pulled her (because SHE wanted me) and that was it. She then took complete advantage. Brought other dudes into my apartment. 1 night she even came back from the bar WITH ME and then LEFT WITH ANOTHER GUY. That was it. Thats when I came back to this site. Now if I see her I ignore her for omst of the night, hit on other girls, and then next thing I knew, she was following me and doing all stupid shyt to get my attention.

The stuff that he posted works 60% of the time ALL THE TIME!!!!! (Anchor Man lol)

 

[Bluesteak]

Thanks for the support guys, its giving me confidence knowing that i have you guys supporting me and its possible to do this. As for the party on Thursday, I am bringing a wing and this is going to be a true test of my game and the pressure is going to be a little high. But I think i can keep my composure and at least mack with a girl (theres going to be upwards of 50 people there).