My Space is a waste of time. There are no really attractive girls, so a girl that's a 6 or 7 in real life looks better than the fatties and ugly girls.
I wasn't on it to meet a girlfriend or even a woman to have sex with, I was just hoping to practice conversation on myspace, on the phone, and maybe meet a few girls as friends. I sent a girl an innocent message, something along the lines of "Hi. I'm interested in a clean chat and would like to get to know you," and find out that she didn't read it. Deleted it and cancelled my friend request along with the rest of the guys. After finally talking to her (keep in mind this girl is about a 6 at the best...pretty face, looks a little chubby) she mentions how she's always getting messages from guys about wanting her to ride them or telling her how hot she is and just assumed that I was another pervert. Then said "We can talk, but as myspace friends, nothing else." Even if this is anti-slut defense, like I said, we're talking a 6 here, she's not even worth the trouble. Could find better looking and better personality in real life.
Another girl's profile, I notice that she looks like if the actor Kim Raven (Audrey Raines from 24) had a b*tchy looking sister. Of course I didn't say that to her. Word for word, "I'm not sure if you've been told this before, but you look like the actress Kim Raven" and sent her a link of Kim Raven and told her if she's never watched 24 to check it out because it's a great show. She read it and didn't return a message. You can argue that comparing her to an actress was perceived as a come-on, but even if she saw it as a come-on, shouldn't a "thanks for the compliment" be in order?
http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc305/Beckett20and7/
(A pic of Kim Raven and one of the girl...not ugly, but a b*tchy face...and her ugly friend.)
Anyway, the point is, it's a lot harder in real life at first, I mean going up to a girl and introducing yourself and being interesting to her. But online is just a bunch of attention-wh*res who don't even have the looks going for them. It might take me a while to get over my approach anxiety, but when it happens, it will be more satisfying than anything that could happen on myspace or other internet meeting sites.
