LJBF ing a Girl in A Good Way?

[antidonjuan]

There is this girl in my school who is really into me, we flirt, we fool around in school. She even told me that she loves me. She likes me for 4 months now and I dunno where this is going. I don't want a girlfriend right now because of various reasons. I just want to be cool and flirt around with multiple girls, get some social proof. I never really wanted to get into any relationships.

She is cute and have interesting personality. But school will be over (grade 9) in just a month, and I have no intention of going further than flirting around. I want to end it really soon, I want her to be my good friend and move on. If I just tell her: let's just be friends, then she will be really pissed and c*ckblock me later on because she knows alot, alot of people.

I just dun want one-titis, what should I do to not go further with her and be her good friend?

 

[Bryce556]

haha wow this is one i acually dont have uch advice on what to do. Id just prob tell the girl how i feel, like your not ready for a relationship quite at the moment or somthing like that. Im in grade 12 lol and i hope for the day when i have more problems with rejecting girls and stuff lol when girls acually start liking me

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

LJBF itself is good way of saying FVCK YOU , I DONT WANNA HAVE NOTHING WITH YOU .

So , tell her . Tell her she's amazing girl , she is very interesting and cool but , you always viewed her only as your friend and always will be that way .Tell her you can link her with some of your friends that are also cool guys .

Or , get a girlfriend .

 

[ARrocket]

You have to subtly let her know that you're interested in other girls instead. Tell her about a date you had, a girl you met, or ask her for advice on some other girl, etc. That way, you let her "save face" and you don't have to have such a confrontation.

 

[antidonjuan]

Theres great chemistry between her and me, she is very special and get hit by other guys. She want me so bad and does everything "right" for a girl to chase a guy (acting very feminine) But the thing is: I am not ready yet for a girlfriend. I have a feeling that it's gonna get ugly between the two of us after I befriend her.

I dunno if she can handle it. I have already broke a girl's heart before (she chased me for 1 entire school year).

I wanna be a good friend of her

I really regret flirting around with so much girls and have to reject them later on. Before, I blindly flirt around with no purpose. I have realized that for me, I am not ready for relationship and my goal is social proof and men mentality.

She never wanted me as her friend and never treated me as a nice friend (as a lover). I have completely ignored her two times already trying to befriend her. But she stayed persistant and kept chasing me.

Bad luck for her...

 

[antidonjuan]

You have to subtly let her know that you're interested in other girls instead. Tell her about a date you had, a girl you met, or ask her for advice on some other girl, etc. That way, you let her "save face" and you don't have to have such a confrontation.

I get what you mean by "save face". I need to subtly befriend her without her c*ckblocking me later on in high school. I am only in grade 9 and high school is gonna be long. You suggested that I should ask for girl advice. Is there any other way? Cuz if I do that, her friends will no longer see me "mysterious."

 

[ARrocket]

I get what you mean by "save face". I need to subtly befriend her without her c*ckblocking me later on in high school. I am only in grade 9 and high school is gonna be long. You suggested that I should ask for girl advice. Is there any other way? Cuz if I do that, her friends will no longer see me "mysterious."

Tell her about the great date you had this weekend (even if it needs to be made up) or tell her about this amazing girl you met...and you really like her. Something like that.

Tell her you're glad that you have a female friend with which there is no pressure to be anything more. LOL....I've never actually tried that one.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Haha do what I did three days ago to this uggo.


"I think we should just be friends."

Using female tactics right back at them leaves them speechless.


But seriously, just treat her like the friend you want to be. That means no flirtation.