"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LJBF girl is back

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yngad

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hi everyone,

i was ljbf by a girl a few years back. she moved away and i moved away because of school. just recently we both graduated and moved back to the same area and she's currently single. she's single and is trying to use me as a confidence booster (flirting w/ me to try and get a response but won't put out or do anything). how would you guys approach this? what would you do? any suggestions? i don't want to fall into her trap and get crushed again but at the same time i don't want to completely ignore her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ValleyDJing

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Ignore her. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
 
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yngad

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i'll probably get flammed for this but i keep having this thought that i might have a little small chance. possibly some messed up version of hope...how do i get over that?
 
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When she flirts with you again, kiss her. You will never again be considered "Sexually Non-Threatening" by her. Even if she doesn't want anything with you, she will know that you and her cannot just be friends, because you are a sexual being.
 
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