"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LJBF girl is back

yngad

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hi everyone,

i was ljbf by a girl a few years back. she moved away and i moved away because of school. just recently we both graduated and moved back to the same area and she's currently single. she's single and is trying to use me as a confidence booster (flirting w/ me to try and get a response but won't put out or do anything). how would you guys approach this? what would you do? any suggestions? i don't want to fall into her trap and get crushed again but at the same time i don't want to completely ignore her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ValleyDJing

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Ignore her. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
 

yngad

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i'll probably get flammed for this but i keep having this thought that i might have a little small chance. possibly some messed up version of hope...how do i get over that?
 

Gangster Of Love

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When she flirts with you again, kiss her. You will never again be considered "Sexually Non-Threatening" by her. Even if she doesn't want anything with you, she will know that you and her cannot just be friends, because you are a sexual being.
 
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