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LJBF girl is back

yngad

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hi everyone,

i was ljbf by a girl a few years back. she moved away and i moved away because of school. just recently we both graduated and moved back to the same area and she's currently single. she's single and is trying to use me as a confidence booster (flirting w/ me to try and get a response but won't put out or do anything). how would you guys approach this? what would you do? any suggestions? i don't want to fall into her trap and get crushed again but at the same time i don't want to completely ignore her.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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ValleyDJing

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Ignore her. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."
 

yngad

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i'll probably get flammed for this but i keep having this thought that i might have a little small chance. possibly some messed up version of hope...how do i get over that?
 

Gangster Of Love

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When she flirts with you again, kiss her. You will never again be considered "Sexually Non-Threatening" by her. Even if she doesn't want anything with you, she will know that you and her cannot just be friends, because you are a sexual being.
 
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