"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LJBF - Did i do the right thing?

wonderer

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Guys I am thinking of just removing her from social media. If she calls me out ill just say that I saw her snapchat and that I dont think being friends is a good idea.

Even if Things didnt work out between these two am I really gunna start seeing her. She FZ me clearly even though there was attraction. I missed the crucial window of opportunity.

Yeah she contacted me after the NC, but if she was serious she wouldve asked to have meet up.

Am I doing the right thing?

Maybe I could still try as their only seeing eachother and not bf and gf
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wonderer

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Guys I am thinking of just removing her from social media. If she calls me out ill just say that I saw her snapchat and that I dont think being friends is a good idea.

Even if Things didnt work out between these two am I really gunna start seeing her. She FZ me clearly even though there was attraction. I missed the curcial window of opportunity.
 

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I got another snapchat this morning from her which was blatently from the guy shes seeing bed. It was a picture of the TV with them under the covers.

I cant be fvcked anymore. Maybe I could fvck her if I tried I dont know. But I've removed her from social media. If she asks why I'll just say its because I saw your snapchats and I dont think we can be friends.

I need to next this bvtch and spin other plates and move on. Too much effort to get out the FZ I messed up early on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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