Ljbf a girl you like?

[dream_fragments]

Do you know when a girl is still deciding whether she should ljbf you or not? (If that state exists)
or maybe she's about to do it, or maybe she recently did it, maybe things were going right, but you did something stupid, or started doing stupid things, like showing a lot of interest, or talking to her a lot with her (getting too exited and showing), telling her something you shouldn't have told, or whatever...

Why don't you just ljbf her first instead?

I was thinking of this, because of my sister. She has a friend who has wanted her since... bleh, anyway, she didn't care about him, then, somehow, things started becoming a little bit weird, he started doing a lot of things for her, and started showing a lot of (sexual) interest. She used to tell me it was weird and she didn't know what to do with him. GUESS WHAT?

several weeks later, he stopped showing this interest. In fact, now he's just like, you know what? you're a great friend for me... I love being friends with you! etc etc...

Now my sister is really depressed and I know she's craving for this ****er; I tell her the guy is an idiot and she gets even more depressed.

I didn't believe all this **** from sosuave (that i've read) and online books like david deangelo, i used to believe it was BS since most of what he says looks like crap (in my opinion), but now i think this guy is on something...

So I'm thinking of telling a few girls something along the lines of: "you know what, I always want to be your friend" or something like that...

I know this is nothing new... but it just came to me like an idea... Just wondering what you think of it, because it might also backfire and make things worse I think...

What do you think?

 

[Monkey]

the second i see a woman lose interest, i will dump her.

not play-dump, but REAL dump.

i dont want a female who's only half interested in me.

i want her to be 100% on my ship, or not at all. i dont want to invest my time with someone who is sitting on the edge of leaving all the time.

my advice is to dump her.

a woman even DEBATING wether or not to LJBF you, is an insult to your manhood.

i bet you she wouldn't be thinking about LJBFing brad pitt or johnny depp.. in fact, she would break her neck trying to get a date with them.

Spot on.

If a girl needs to consider her interests in you then its over before its even begun. NEXT!

 

[Microphone Fiend]

the second i see a woman lose interest, i will dump her.

not play-dump, but REAL dump.

i dont want a female who's only half interested in me.

a woman even DEBATING wether or not to LJBF you, is an insult to your manhood.

I think you have the wrong mindset imo. I think you should look at it like a politican at times, you cannot just expect people to vote for you like an entitlement, you need to convince them that you are worthy of their praise and respect. If the girl is losing interest, who's fault is that really??? You guys say to find the next chick, but the same ole sh!t is gonna happen until you either find out how to keep women interested or find a chick oblivious to the fact that you are not keeping her interest. You are not solving the problem of low interest by dropping her, but you are not ACTING you are only REACTING, "Oh she doesnt like me? She kinda wants to be friends? Well... well.. well i dont like her either!"



To the OP, Dream Fragments, I think the idea does work but that is because it changes the perception of who the guy is to the girl. That is what most of the success of seduction is about, showing that you are different than they originally thought (if you have a bad 1st impression) or that you are different from everyone else. If you act all AFC when you fall for her and then start acting DJ and change her perception of you like the guy did to your sis, i think things will go for the better, however I think it would be much more advantageous if you just acted like a DJ throughout. Let the girls know you are the kinda guy who goes for what you want and has no regrets or ulterior motives.

 

[saber]

of course girl need to consider their interest in you...any girl that you are seeing or about to is constantly scrutinizing your actions just as you are her...duh?

It could be beneificial to verbaly ljbf a girl while escalating physically which not only disarms her a little but creates some tension that you can control.

even after you break up with a girl its best to ljbf her because beeing an unapproachable jerk won't help you at all