"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Living with the woman of my dreams?

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MissionX said:
Unfortunetly some people have nothing better to do than flame posts, I try to give negative comments with good intentions, and good advice on how to defuse a situation, or develope a good one. Or vise versa.

Payne

says the 18 year old. :trouble: :rock:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacAvoy said:
Cmon guys. Why does everyone have to be so harsh and negative around here? This is a beautiful young women and she's payin attention to HIM. We can't stand in the way of destiny, after all this women makes him dream that he is a man, you don't want to take that away do you?
:flowers: Oh yes MacAvoy! You're right, we're all wrong. He should sweep her off her feet and marry her right away! Have kids! Lots of chubby smiling babies! He should buy a house with a white picket fence, a dog named Rex and a cat named Pixie! How about a bright red minivan with "Love Conquers All" painted on the side!

Okay, all sacrasm aside, he really shouldn't be thinking about marrying this girl for several years. He shouldn't be going on about "there's no one else like her". Divorce rates are around 50-60% in the US. A "starter marriage" is becoming acceptable. And destiny is a way of saying "I have no control over my life". We aren't trying to be harsh, we're trying to be realistic, hoping to make him open his eyes and take off those pretty rose colored glasses.
 

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:woo: I went fishing and guess what I caught?:woo:



joekerr31 said:
hahahaha:crackup:

"guys, i've got a gun to my head. am i going to blow my brains out?"

"why don't you pull the trigger and find out?"

this has disaster written all over it.

but who knows. maybe im wrong. just my opinion. last thing i'd ever want to do is shoot down some guys hopes just for fun.
WaterTiger said:
Oh yes MacAvoy! You're right, we're all wrong. He should sweep her off her feet and marry her right away! Have kids! Lots of chubby smiling babies! He should buy a house with a white picket fence, a dog named Rex and a cat named Pixie! How about a bright red minivan with "Love Conquers All" painted on the side!
 

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MacAvoy said:
:woo: I went fishing and guess what I caught?:woo:
You lucky, lucky man! You have a trophy wall that is the envy of everyone!:cool:
 
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