"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Living the life of a World Traveler

ZenoB

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If you can go backpacking around Europe (or anywhere for that matter), do it! If you can get a job in another country, do it! My original plan was to quit my job and travel, but I ended up getting a job overseas instead.

Living and working in another country is an experience of a lifetime, and quite different than travelling through a place for a few days. I'm really happy I was able to continue my career and continue making an income now.

So I think I know how you're feeling, because I felt the same way, but if you have a good career going, be careful about messing it up.

The trouble really is that the culture in the U.S. isn't as open about taking a year off to travel before heading to college, and then once you've gone through college and you've got that job, you realize that you want to experience and see the rest of the world, but you feel stuck in your career.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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