"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Living in a big city?

ChrizZ

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Hi,

Pros and Cons for living in a big city like Toronto?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, I don't know about Toronto, but I can tell ya how it goes in Chicago.

Pros: Tons of music venues, amazing bars, restaurants, great women, jobs, public transit so you don't have to drive everywhere (could also be a con)

Cons: Extremely, like crazy, expensive compared to suburbs, parking is an enormous pain in the butt and expensive, if you go to the wrong part of town there is crime.

Those are the big ones off the top of my head, although you'd be surprised how frustrating parking is. If you come home at the wrong part of the night you may be circling for an hour before you find anything. You can rent a spot in a garage for $300/month.
 

ChrizZ

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Effington said:
Well, I don't know about Toronto, but I can tell ya how it goes in Chicago.

Pros: Tons of music venues, amazing bars, restaurants, great women, jobs, public transit so you don't have to drive everywhere (could also be a con)

Cons: Extremely, like crazy, expensive compared to suburbs, parking is an enormous pain in the butt and expensive, if you go to the wrong part of town there is crime.

Those are the big ones off the top of my head, although you'd be surprised how frustrating parking is. If you come home at the wrong part of the night you may be circling for an hour before you find anything. You can rent a spot in a garage for $300/month.
Thanks.

I heard toronto is a really safe city though.

Is a car even necessary then if the public transit is good?
 

rjones

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I live in Toronto and I like it. I couldn't imagine living in a small city where theres barely anything to do.
If you live downtown or close to it you dont need a car in Toronto. You can get anywhere by streetcar or subway in less than 45 minutes. Toronto is also a safe city even in the bad areas its nothing compared to the US. I think the cons about Toronto is its expensive to live downtown and the weather sucks.
 

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God I love big cities. I used to think I wouldn't like them, but recently I spent some time in a big city and every night can be a crazy ass adventure unlike anything you can do in a small city and every night you meet some of the most insane and interesting people around.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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