"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good (articulate) post man, very direct.
This is a good post to read after digesting one of pook's or mr finger's posts. It gets you motivated, the finishing touch, to say OK MUTHAFUKKER (to world) TIME TO GET SOME *****!!!

Man i think yours posts affecting me, since when do most guys here actually get off their arses and say that. I'm living a lie :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow, this will become a classic! Well said!

-Sapiens
 
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Love it! I like these kind of articles that reminds you to live for today and don't look book at the past :) Well spoken.
 
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in 100 years we'll all be dead and noone will care. and that's if you're lucky.

I once read this on the door to a crypt...

"we were what you are
and you will be what we are now"
 
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I've noticed by reading some of your posts that you tell us to act somewhat AFCish. "tell them your feelings" I imagine that you say this to give the impression that you should do whatever you want. As if you were stating these sort of behaviors for motivational purposes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"tell them your feelings" is about not holding back... obviously you need to have the right sort of feelings, not the "i feel so lonely, i feel like i want to hump you!"
But just to embrace life and live in the moment, and this i think leads you to the desired feelings you want.

Or you can not express your feelings, and become all self repressed like Mystery... but hey its your life :)
 
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ic...

You live your life...you live a life that puts a smile on your face...you work hard for you money...you work hard for your pu*ssy...you play the game hard...and remember it just a game and your one of the many million "players"

Women..pu*syy and everything is a game....

Improve on yourself...love your life...learning how to love it thats the challenge...find some goals and put down that remote and do it.

Love yourself and your life...have goals and ambition..Ambition fellas..then write down your weakness and strengths and start day one..improve on number one....

Its so simple man..life is a rat race in everything...the person who can first reach enligtenment and realize that he need himself to be happy and nothing will make him happy with himself but him..Self sufficent in his self worth. Then he works to get rid of anxiety, loves himself and does what ever he needs to get better.

I think that if you go after a woman for the wrong reasons...if you are looking for happines..then you'll only get pain...
Why do we work...why do we chase p*ssy or work for it bcuz I know...CUZ i know that they can make my life better or more entertaining not happier but they will to some extent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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