"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_Mind_Tricks

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Hey guys i got a question. how can i make conversations more exciting when i chat it up with women. B/c im starting to think im a boring guy... i mean im funny but only when i find something to truely be funny about. Then i get those akward silences B/C im talkin about FRIGGIN boring sh*t.... Then the chick ends up leavin when she sees one of her friends come around. Hmmmmm perhaps im letting my convos drag on too long. Ive never really tried askin 4 ## yet b/c well,,,,,,.....uh....why the hell dont i? lol

anyway, anyone got any tips on me to spice up the convo and double the fun :p with women that i cant or can find common ground to talk about?? Lol maybe i dress too GQ or boring gotta fix dat. Or tips on keeping their attention..

peace,
ron
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_Mind_Tricks

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b/c

b/c yea i think that "how are you doing? how was your day", stuff only goes SO far.
 

Julius_Caesar

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If you are talking to a chick, just tease her, but make sure she knows your teasing and not being an as$hole. But make it boarderline. Real David Deangleo's double your dating for teasing advice.

If you are talking to dudes, who cares? You'll think of something. sports, chicks, funny sh!t. Thats easy.
 
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