"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Live with 3 chicks?

BDude004

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My lease on my current place expires in two weeks and I've been offered the basement in a house with 3 chicks living upstairs. I'm still looking for a place by myself, but it's not looking like I'm gonna find one before my lease expires.

My last experience with male roommates was pretty retarded (nobody cleaned ****, and I like my place spotless) so of course I'm very wary.

Could anyone here describe their experiences living with female roommates? I could give a **** less about them bringing dudes home to screw as I'll be bringing quite a few ladies home as well :yes:

Any advice is appreciated!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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everywomanshero

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Female roomies are cool, just make sure they are clean. Some hawties have disgusting pet or just general cleaning problems.

Having a female roomie kind of lets other women know you aren't a total psycho if (normal, non-psycho) chicks are willing to live with you. I say go for it.
 

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I've got two female roommates, one moved in not too long ago and started cooking for me, etc, now the one i've been living with for a while started doing things for me, inviting me places, making cookies, etc. It's almost like a competition between them now who can do more for me. I don't really like either one in that way, I don't know how they feel, they both have boyfriends.

They're good to live with, the only problem is i share a bathroom with one, and she has a habbit of clogging the bathtub with her long hair..
 

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I imagine its like living with your sisters back at home, at least regarding the state of the apartment. But you could actually hook up with these girls too, and there isn't the kind of arguing that happens between siblings, only the arguing between friends/roommates. As long as they're classy ladies, not sluts or disgusting housekeepers, sounds like fun. I'd do it.
 
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