Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
id like to get in on this and find out the mindset of some of the fellow posters. I pm'd ya penkitten
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter RedPill
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we are in chat now
Shakko
New Member
This chat idea is great! I was on last night at around 11pm and got some great advice.
Is this chat only open on nights, or can I try to log on at any time? I just tried and it told me that the administrator only allowed people on a list to join in.
Is this chat only open on nights, or can I try to log on at any time? I just tried and it told me that the administrator only allowed people on a list to join in.
MacAvoy
Banned
Shakko, its open all the time, I often pop in when I'm bored to see if anyone is hanging around.
Are you on a different computer today? You might have to relog in.
Are you on a different computer today? You might have to relog in.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
shakko, pm me your email addy to join chat
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"LS Unplugged: Defining Masculinity in a Positive Context" ?
this sunday nights chat topic
this sunday nights chat topic
Magma
Senior Don Juan
At what time, praytell?
RedPill
Master Don Juan
...RedPill said:
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
PentaGUN War Chief PENKITTEN,
Please clear your PM Box A.S.A.P.!
I have a communique for you that may prove to be of the UTMOST importance.
Thank You.
VU
Please clear your PM Box A.S.A.P.!
I have a communique for you that may prove to be of the UTMOST importance.
Thank You.
VU
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
I was in the room until I was kicked out.
Can someone place me on the invited list?
Can someone place me on the invited list?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
pm your email addy to meFaded Image said:
it is set up where you need an invitation
Magma
Senior Don Juan
Yo PK. Check your PMs. I want to get in on this chat.penkitten said:
KarmaSutra
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bizump.
Get in the chatroom lazy asses.
Get in the chatroom lazy asses.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
chatzy is funny tonight, come back in
MacAvoy
Banned
I can't get in for some reason.
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Checked it - it's working. Contact the admin (penkitten).
penkitten
Master Don Juan
people are in chat now
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.