"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Join up and let's converse in real-time.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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$10 says this won't be successful. proof simply by searching. also, after this 1 chat room, 5 other clever people will come up with the idea within a month... and fail.

...all for the power of being admin (for some reason).
 

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Suggestion, try setting these things up on some nights other than weekends.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if someone can help establish a day during the week, i can hop in around ten-ish.
perhaps a tuesday ?
 

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Michele said:
$10 says this won't be successful. proof simply by searching. also, after this 1 chat room, 5 other clever people will come up with the idea within a month... and fail.

...all for the power of being admin (for some reason).
oh thats so silly.
we made a chat room to be able to gather for live chat every once in a while. there is not a bunch of people in there daily,however the chat room will come up if you log in . so if a few people want to meet up in there, take advantage that it is there.
there does not have to be any admin in there to get in.

and there have been maybe 20 other chats started before. failed? no they got to chat as they intended.

you are welcome to drop if you want.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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i supposed you two are right about it not being a failure. i'll probably stop by actually if i ever need a quick response... but haven't had the need lately.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NEXT OFFICIAL CHAT TIME: 10/28/07 Sunday 9:00pm Pacific time/8:00pm Eastern Time...BE THERE DJs!!!!
 
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Ken785 said:
NEXT OFFICIAL CHAT TIME: 10/27/07 Sunday 9:00pm Pacific time/8:00pm Eastern Time...BE THERE DJs!!!!
dude sunday is today the 28th :)
 

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hey MODS!! heres an idea...why don't you guys, STICKY THIS!!!

that would be a great idea!!...then people can jump in and out of chats anytime they want, it can be the official board hangout for when we wanna shoot the sh!t with each other... -Ken785
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ken785 said:
hey MODS!! heres an idea...why don't you guys, STICKY THIS!!!

that would be a great idea!!...then people can jump in and out of chats anytime they want, it can be the official board hangout for when we wanna shoot the sh!t with each other... -Ken785
This is a superb recommendation!!!
 

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Ill agree to sticky it for awhile if its active and everything as far as on this post is concerned follows forum rules.
 

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so if anyone wants to set up a day and time that they can jump into the room, everyone else can plan to be there too....
 

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The way it's set up now is okay, but I think we should arrange a night of the week, at a specific time, that people could go in the chat room.

Right now there's like a hundred people going on at different times, so no one sees eachother.

e.g. Monday from 7-10pm EST is when it's open.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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