"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Live every waking moment to the fullest

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I started tracking how many hours I sleep so seeing as I spend over 1/3 of my life sleeping, anyway, I might as will live the moments I'm awake to the fullest.

Always be productive. Working on house flipping or whatever. Trying new things. Meeting new people. Being less selfish. Trying to smile. Make some friends.

Enough of this being shy stuff. Plus, am I really shy? I don't think so. It just comes across that way in person. I'm obviously at least partially psychotic haha. And I can't be a psycho creep in person because it's not appropriate. But Idk. Try new things.

Maybe try to get by with less sleep. I'm going to die some day, anyway. Probably not any time soon, but you never know.

Plus, I'm obviously not shy. I can have conversations online all day long, but have trouble in person for some reason.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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good one

my only escape mechanisms are browsing sosuave and other boards, or listening to music. i listen to music while I work, so thats not escape mechanism. SS also contains a lot of value, so its not escape mechanism either

another escape mechanism is online dating but sometimes i get something out of it, so not bad
 
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