Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Live at home

bob2007

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I'm not even sure of the logistics... How do I pick up / bang chicks if I live at home.

But I stay home with my parents about 2 months of the year. The rest I spend in Asia. Age 26. Live in the suburbs of Toronto. Clubs and Bars are downtown.

Am I setting up an obstacle for myself? Or only in my mind?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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women haze

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I know two people my friends that get girls like crazy and still live at home...with their Mom AND dad!!!!

another one i know lives with his grandmama and gets pvssy like it's his birthday.....

It is all about what you say out of your mouth, in these economical times not everyone can be a home owner.

I don't live at home I "rent" you feel me?
 

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Where there's a will, there's a way.

Once you have a girl willing to come home with you, I don't think she's going to care about who else is in the house. She just cares about boning.
 

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It's all in your head. You have many advantages in this situation.

1. Easy to explain to the ladies that you crash at your parents place for only 2 months before going back to Asia every year. Being here only 2 months helps you with creating urgency.
2. Make it fun to sneak them in in the middle of the night. It's adventurous and fun.
 

bob2007

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I like the optimism thus far. Prob all in my mind ya.

Like today, at bar dancing. I was with a bunch of white girls, black guys and the brothas really had a lot more fun with the girls. Me I'm Asian, and prob the best dancer, but they were just so much more joyous for everyone. I def need to let loose more.

I was hoping I'd get some answers on getting them back to their place. The last girl offered that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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