"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Well I know a lot of people are wondering whatever happened to me and my Girlfriend. So I will give you guys a current update on what is going on. We still do live together. She is moving out May 4th because she is transferring schools. She still claims that she wants to be in a relationship with me and that she loves me and wants to marry me. However, since the last time I posted I've been distant to her. Such as not touching her or cuddling with her (we sleep in the same bed and I just sleep on my wall). Every single day she mentions how I don't love her or care about her and I always just ignore her comments. I would love to be more emotional with her but just thinking about the face that I haven't had sex in 3 months just turns me off.

We still do argue A LOT still though. Just last week she was cooking dinner for us. (The previous whole week I cooked dinner for her). She got a pan out and said it was dirty so she came in the room straight up b*Tching. I told her I put soap on it and washed it. She then keeps badgering me so I tell her to get out of my face and wash it herself if she thinks its dirty ( I said it nicely :D). She then puts the dishes up and then drives my car to sonic to get something to eat but doesn't bring me back anything. I thought this was very f*cked up but I really didn't complain. I told her one time it was f*cked up and then kept it movin.

Then over the weekend she asks me to drive her 100 miles on tuesday so she can turn some paper work in. I told her I might depending on how I feel. So then today comes around and I catch her in a simple lie over the unlock pattern on her phone (LOL!). I laughed and said that she was lieing. (We were about to get food at McDonalds). As soon as she said some sh*t to piss me off I told her I wasn't hungry and she could drop me off at my next class. She does this and while I'm in the class she text me something along the lines of this:

"I'm sick and tired of you disrespecting me and raising your voice at me. Right now I am counting down the days until I get the HELL out of your apartment."

I respond saying that I have not disrespected her in anyway or raised my voice. I told her if I see some bullcrap I will call you out on it do doubt. She doesn't respond.

So later on in the evening when I come home she is cooking dinner for once (What a suprise). Everything is fine because I didn't feel like bringing up what happened earlier but I was still a little mad about it. She then asks me if I am going to drive her 100 milers so she can turn in those forms. I tell her no. (The reason I said no is because I am not going to reward her for being a b!tch to me). She then asks me repeatedly the same question and I tell her no. She then proceeds to tell me that I lied to her on the phone. I told her I never said for sure I would take you. She then gets super upset and doesn't say jack sh*t to me. If I sad anything she would ignore me and tell me to shutup. She then proceeds to get some ice and chew on it (she has got a condition where she cant chew on ice or it could mess her up healthwise). I then snatch the ice out of her hand and throw all that ice pops in the trash (Don't worry folks, I bought the ice LOL). She then proceeds to call me a monster and threatens to call the police and say I was domestically violent to her.. I call her out on the bluff and she didn't do anything.

The AFC inside me kinda wants to take her to turn in her papers tommorow but I cannot reward bad behaviour. I told her this and she then says she ain't apologizing for nothing and she tryed sleeping on the floor. But after a few mins she got back in the bed. haha

Well there is just a little update for you guys. I'm very excited for her to move out in a week. It is kind of bitter sweet. I don't want it to happen but I know I need it if I want to continue with my life. I have finals this week and I cannot be distracted by this drama because I need to do well on my exams.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tiguere

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You remind me of 2 individuals who thrive on each other emotional outburst. Not healthy at all.
 

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How does that work?
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
How does that work?
Basically just two people who get off on the negative energy of fighting with each other. It's a part of the routine. Some folks come home after a rough day at work and jog 5 miles. Some folks yell at their significant other.


I don't remember the back story, but I hope she's lasted until May 4 because of some legal obligation that you CANT get out of. Because anything short of that is awful. This girl should have been gone a LONG time ago, and the two of you together is cancerous.
 

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Well she moved out the apartment last week. This is my one week of from school so I went to my parents house. I still haven't broken up with her.. I have been sad though over the past few days because I basically spent most of my time with my GF when I was back at school and I don't know how long it will take me to adjust.

Over this one week break I have been at my parents house and she keeps calling me and texting me asking me when I will be coming over to her house or seeing her. I told her I would see her Friday, Saturday, and Sunday to move her into her apartment. I have been real busy though so hadn't had time to come and see her.

I haven't had sex with her in 4 months. This is pretty much the dealbreaker for me. That is so ridiculous to me. I even think I went through a little bit of losing my mind and my grades were even affected by this. It's pretty much a sad situation I got myself in here. I know this is the start of me actually doing something after destroying a year and a half of my life
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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goldengoose

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Grow some balls and don't be a nerd. You get girls by going out and getting what you want.
This advice you gave sure hasn't worked out very well for you has it?

you should stick to your own advice that you like to knock other guys with.

"grow some balls and don't be a nerd."

here is mine

grow some balls

be a man

stand up for yourself

and bang your girlfriend

but she won't let you.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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It's no problem. I have had oneitis but it should be easier to get over it as we are over 100 miles away rather than living together.
 
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