"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Little problem

Mjazz

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There are 2 girls that I like, but they arent in the same "group" as I am, they are on different levels and it sucks. Im not that close to my friends right now so I dont know how they would react. I really like these girls but Im afraid to ask them out because of my friends. This sucks, I feel trapped in who I can date by my group. Only in high school man. What should I do? Its my second semester senior year, Im just thinking about saying **** it and just asking one of them out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rock_Solid

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Midway through senior year at my high school cliques aren't all that defined anymore, anyone can hang out with/date anyone else, no one really cares. I mean, your not going to see any of these people again after a few more months anyway, so just go for it.
 

Plec07

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I say go for it. You friends shouldn't care who you date and if you close yourself off to all other groups then it's gonna be hard to progress as a DJ.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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