"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know just saying "hi" is probably the best pick up line ever (at least for people who dont have a lotta game yet), but how do you follow through? Im interested in what type of things you say RIGHT after the "hi-part" ;-).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It doesn't matter what you say really, just start talking after you say hi.

Today I saw this chick at the computer lab that I recognized from my gym. She walked past me and I did a double take with my head. I looked so surprised that She looked back at me like "wtf"

So a few minutes later I went up to her and said "hi, you work at the gym right? That's why I gave you that strange look"

Then I asked her name and shook her hand.

It really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's in context, and relevant.
 
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Well yeah I know what u mean its just that sometimes I cant really think of something to say and it seems like I always end up talking to her about things ud talk about in a chatroom like..what do u do..where u from blabla..sometimes (of the few times ive gotten myself to approach a chick so far) it worked out well sometimes i kinda thought it was silly as hell. Anyways thx for your example I guess I just to need to come up with something to say that fits the situation.
 
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Practice practic practice. I for one suck at conversations and my social skillz leave much to be desired. But I'm getting better everyday.

A big problem for me was actually having the courage just to "talk" to women.

I go to a university and for the whole time I've been here I have felt isolated from everyone around me. Like everyone else is a part of something and I'm just a bystander.

But I started the Bootcamp and forced myself to be more social. Now I don't feel isolated anymore.

My confidence is increasing every day and (hopefully) so are my social skillz.

Onward,
 
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Originally posted by madgame
I know just saying "hi" is probably the best pick up line ever (at least for people who dont have a lotta game yet), but how do you follow through? Im interested in what type of things you say RIGHT after the "hi-part" ;-).
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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