"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i've know this chick about 18 months, she used to go out with some guy i used to know. We started chatting on facebook about 7 months ago, we flirted alot, and she gave me her number, she would always phone me up drunk telling me she wanted to go out and that.

Any ways last week finally went for a drink, we hit it off i thought. She was all over me by the end of the date...flirting loads, grabbing my hand and leg and that..but since then hardly spoken, i've seen her online a few times but she hasn't said much.

Arranged a date for tomorrow, and i've messaged her to confirm tonight but she hasnt responded, i'm thinking that its gone abit stale, she doesn't seem that interested any more, or maybe its just me? I'm just wondering what I can do to make things pick u again, I think her IL as gone down.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well 7 months..........way too long, u may have gotten the old drunken phone call and a token date but not sure if you are the only one seducing her.

time will reveal your answer and remember ACTIONS speak volumes of a persons interest level.

in the meantime..........set up your next target and dont wait that long.
 
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yeh i was at university at the time. She phoned me week in week out until like 1 weeks ago..telling me how much she liked me and all that bollocks. I've seen her out quite a few times though. Shes been asking for a date the last few weeks I just put it off and she started moaning to me so we arranged something. It seemed good up to saturday night, then since shes been quiet and backoffish .

i think i'm going to leave it though it shouldn't be this difficult. I can give correct advice to people, but I can't give it to myself..that make sense? thanks for response
 
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