"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i've know this chick about 18 months, she used to go out with some guy i used to know. We started chatting on facebook about 7 months ago, we flirted alot, and she gave me her number, she would always phone me up drunk telling me she wanted to go out and that.

Any ways last week finally went for a drink, we hit it off i thought. She was all over me by the end of the date...flirting loads, grabbing my hand and leg and that..but since then hardly spoken, i've seen her online a few times but she hasn't said much.

Arranged a date for tomorrow, and i've messaged her to confirm tonight but she hasnt responded, i'm thinking that its gone abit stale, she doesn't seem that interested any more, or maybe its just me? I'm just wondering what I can do to make things pick u again, I think her IL as gone down.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well 7 months..........way too long, u may have gotten the old drunken phone call and a token date but not sure if you are the only one seducing her.

time will reveal your answer and remember ACTIONS speak volumes of a persons interest level.

in the meantime..........set up your next target and dont wait that long.
 
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yeh i was at university at the time. She phoned me week in week out until like 1 weeks ago..telling me how much she liked me and all that bollocks. I've seen her out quite a few times though. Shes been asking for a date the last few weeks I just put it off and she started moaning to me so we arranged something. It seemed good up to saturday night, then since shes been quiet and backoffish .

i think i'm going to leave it though it shouldn't be this difficult. I can give correct advice to people, but I can't give it to myself..that make sense? thanks for response
 
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