little advice

[hollywood07]

Its my first year in college and things are basically going well got several chicks diggin me etc. Then out of the blue i get a message from this chick i went to high school with last year on myspace saying she saw me driving and noticed my car. She's pretty hot and went out with this football player for like a year or two and we bairly talked so its weird.
So we message each other about what we have been doing, talking about our commutes (she asks me where i live) etc. She knoes my really good female friend from the school choir and i neg her a little about being in choir. Then i tell that we all should hang out and she agrees. I get her number blah blah...
A couple days later (today) i text her. I introduce my self see what were doin and get right down to the chase and hanging out this friday. First she asks me what r we doin (trying to get me to qualify her). I tell her its 3 days away and we'll figure out something. then she texts saying it was her bad that she thought it was tomm. I give her **** about that and then say "so ur coming". she texts bak saying we will c. So i text "we will c? na its either yes or not at all"..she txts back i guess no then beotch...

Now to me it sounds like she's playing hard to get but i dont know where to go from here what would you guys do?

 

[Ultimate Player]

you need more women in your life that you are dating/fcuking - no one cares about this girl who knows u who messaged you

and you shouldnt care either!!!!!!!!!!!

get out there and date new girls, FAST

 

[Andromax]

I tell her its 3 days away and we'll figure out something.

Not to be critical, but in the future when making a date/plans whatever, be Alpha and say that I will figure something out, or its a suprise, whatever. "We'll figure it out," is not the best thing to say, because a girl likes a guy that can make up his mind and take her on a fun ride etc. (Alpha male behavior) but whatever, if she were interested in you in the first place it wouldn't have been a big deal or overly noted.

then she texts saying it was her bad that she thought it was tomm. I give her **** about that and then say "so ur coming". she texts bak saying we will c. So i text "we will c? na its either yes or not at all"..she txts back i guess no then beotch...

Theres really no point in calling a chick out on her stupidity unless you are in a relationship with her. I would have next'd that disrespectful little slvt at "I thought you were tomm."

Now to me it sounds like she's playing hard to get but i dont know where to go from here what would you guys do?

It's more like she is playing impossible to get. She knew who you were, she gave you her number, knew you would call, yet rejects you like that. She is one of those types who likes to feed off of guys for attention. Avoid like the plague!

 

[hollywood07]

dude i am chill i hanging with a different girl tomm. and i got other options for the next weekend. jw what to do in this situation

 

[hollywood07]

thanks andromax thinking the same thing to just drop her

 

[Ultimate Player]

dude i am chill i hanging with a different girl tomm. and i got other options for the next weekend. jw what to do in this situation

in this situation, u were too jumpy and didnt play it cool........you messed up, just charge it to the game and move on - you have many other girls to move on with anyway so it shouldnt be a problem

after you made your mistake, she lost interest.....dont even bother playing these games with girls, they are all useless and lead you nowhere