"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Listening to her 'problems'

Alpheta

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So as has been advised here, a guy should let the girl let it all out and get to the bottom of her problem by LISTENING. Women are meotional so let them take their emotions out.

Well i did this and in the end she cried. I told her not to worry and that i understand.

What was her problem?

She has never been with a guy and that i am her first. She feels like shes not a good girl anymore etc. I tell her people change and it was inevitable.Im cool for like10-20 minurted hearing gher cry and all. However, she then proceeds to tell me im a bad influence and that i need to change and not be so sexually driven lol.

And this is when i called her out on her BS. I remind her that she is the one who initiates sexual activity at times and she needs to stop acting so self righteous. I tell her theres much better and innocent women out there so she needs to calm her shizz. To blame herself and stop throwing her toys out of her pram.

She apologized and then proceeds to tell me that the reason she kept on going was to milk the situation as she never really gets me to be 'nice' and 'caring' lol.

I feel like i may have lost my frame but seriously it winds me up knowing she done this just to get attention.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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