"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Listening, helping and respect.

5string

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I have been here for awhile now. I have likely received more great advice than given. Plus, I have met some really great guys on SS.

Here is what I was thinking. We have a wide range of members. Some are very savvy, some are not and some are simply noobs trying to find their way. We all have a reason for being here.

Many times, a poster will ask for advice which to some, would sound either stupid, needless or an otherwise waste of time. They might even ask for the same advice more than once.

The OP will either take the advice, not take it or consider all of the varying opinions he has received and ultimately react, adjust or otherwise make a decision on a particular problem.

Maybe we should be a little more tolerant when it comes to these guys. Even to the point of giving advice on the same subject more than once. Hey, it might even sink in at some point.

I'm one of the older guys. I have received good advice from guys in their 20's and 30's! I have also gotten slammed for a few things. Sometimes deserved, sometimes not.

Anyway, I'm gonna try and be a little more laid back when it comes to the advice I give out on here, and try and remember that what is really important some some, may seem trivial to others. :)
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes I agree, it requires a little patience.

The obvious to some may be unclear to others, with experience and hindsight the systems and ways of the world seem to click into place... sometimes.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Wow, I never thought I'd ever see a post like this on SS. I wish more people had values like yours. We could really grow as a community that way, if people genuinely tried to help each other with this area of their lives.
 
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