"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Target_100

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2. HB19: I think I'm gonna try to set up a date with her on saturday.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maxtro

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For now there is only one prospect. A really cute blond girl that I had a class with last semester. And now I'm with her in a different class together this semester. She is in a LDR so I don't think I'll get her but I'll see as time goes on.

New semester of college so there will be a lot more new girls. I have to keep my eyes open and be a bit bolder than I normally on. Oddly enough I'm listening to online radio and the song on now has a girl repeating "Make a move on me."

100 is a nice goal. I'd like to get there someday.
 

MacAvoy

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Dongfu said:
Jessica Alba - No real plan yet. I'll figure it out when I see her. :flowers:
I actually had a plan to get Anna Nicole Smith that would have worked but she went and died on me before I could put all the pieces of the puzzle in place.
 

Target_100

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1. HBMilf from last weekend: looks good for tomorrow.
5. HBdarkhair: has major IOI, and I'll try her as second best for saturday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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