"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Target_100

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Here's mine:

1. HBMilf from last weekend, will call her tomorrow to try to set up a date, and if all goes as planned meet her next weekend and make love.
2. HB19, let her call the shots but keep her warm with phonecalls and short meetings.
3. HBfaraway, go to dinner when shes back on vacation and take it from there.
4. HBwork, do CF to keep her attraction level up, but don't do any moves as I might get my ass fired.
5. HBdarkhair. This one I'm not sure about. Don't wanna wast a good prospect though so I'll probably send some texts and see what happens.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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L777

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Ummm, I think this is pretty unclassy, particularly your signature.
 

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Jessica Alba - No real plan yet. I'll figure it out when I see her. :flowers:
 

Target_100

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L777 said:
Ummm, I think this is pretty unclassy, particularly your signature.
My target it to sleep with 100 girls, and these are my current prospects. You've got 10x my posts, but how many HBs have you done?
 

Target_100

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Ok that last one was actually uncalled for because of the 19 I did two of them was below my standard and just because I was drunk... Damn beer tast so nice...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Target_100 said:
My target it to sleep with 100 girls, and these are my current prospects. You've got 10x my posts, but how many HBs have you done?
Will you change your user name once you hit the target?
 

Target_100

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As for my user name, I'll probably have some time to think about wether I'll change it :)
 

L777

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Target_100 said:
My target it to sleep with 100 girls, and these are my current prospects. You've got 10x my posts, but how many HBs have you done?
Not that it matters, but around about the same number. Judging yourself on how many girls you've slept with is basically being a slave to the pvssy though, as thats the way you value yourself, effectively.

Also, I shoot for quality, not quantity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wiesman44

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Target_100 said:
My target it to sleep with 100 girls, and these are my current prospects. You've got 10x my posts, but how many HBs have you done?

Target, good to see you've got your priorities straight womanizing and making connections btwn posts and # of women banged.


Your a classy guy. Hope you continue posting here. You can add a lot more worthless bullsh#t on this site so that you can waste my time and everybody elses.
 

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HB 8.5 co-worker

Plan of action = Do NOTHING as of now...:(
 

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HB:milf, wait for a couple of days until she invites me around to her place then start the seducing...
Thats all for now!
 

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hb9: Pry her snoring ass out of my bed so I can get something done today.

hb7: Whatever the hell I want. I show up at her house, shower, eat her food, fvck her and leave. I can do no wrong with her. She's happy if I just stop by to fvck two or three times a week.

I should spin more plates, but two having nympho GFs is wearing me out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Target_100

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I'll post up as more prospects appear and take them off the list once they are closed. I also add estimated time for each close

1. HBMilf from last weekend, this friday
2. HB19, This or next weekend.
3. HBfaraway, Weeks.
4. HBwork, Months.
5. HBdarkhair. Weeks.
 

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1. HB24 Months. A brunette HB7 all around. Her married sister resembles oneitis facial/body-type/and voice features.
2. HB27 Weeks. A blacked-haired HB9 body, but 7 face but marriable.
3. HB28 Weeks. My Oneitis.
4. HB27 Weeks.
5. HB19 Idunno Haven't seen her in a while.
6. HB47 Weeks Married but we'll see.
7. HB31 Months In LTR but we'll see.
8. HB40 Lives too far away. People are trying to set me up with her.
9. HB18 A secretary who I see daily.
 

Target_100

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Poonani Maker said:
1. HB24 Months. A brunette HB7 all around. Her married sister resembles oneitis facial/body-type/and voice features.
2. HB27 Weeks. A blacked-haired HB9 body, but 7 face but marriable.
3. HB28 Weeks. My Oneitis.
4. HB27 Weeks.
5. HB19 Idunno Haven't seen her in a while.
6. HB47 Weeks Married but we'll see.
7. HB31 Months In LTR but we'll see.
8. HB40 Lives too far away. People are trying to set me up with her.
9. HB18 A secretary who I see daily.

18-47 thats a good range! Mine have been from 18-35 lately, and the last number seem to increase as I age. The first one is strangely fixed :D How old are you Poon Maker? I is 29.
 

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Target_100 said:
How old are you Poon Maker? I is 29.
Early Thirties.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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