"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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List your best locations for day game.

Sun Tzu

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Alright, guys, the consensus seems to be that day game is much harder than night.

As for me, day game is the only way to go since I'm really not thrilled with the quality of women in the clubs (of course, I'm looking for a life partner at this point). No one-nighters.

I have found a gold mine in terms of location to practice day game. There is a town near me, that has a main street with nothing but boutiques and antique shops that leads right down to the waterfront of a river. At the water there is a nice park where lots of "wimins" hang out after and during a hard day of shopping. I always find adventure there every time I go.

I recommend that you day-gamers consider finding an area known for boutiques & antique shops. You've got an abundance of women who seem to be in friendly, receptive and spontaneous mood. Even right within the shops, there are tons of possibilities when it comes to spontaneous openers.

Try it...you'll like it.

Sun Tzu
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Inside Man

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The beach if your close to one, especially at sunset, Parks, Natural food stores, absolutely college campuses!! I also agree with Espi that it's easier to go for stationary targets, girls who are browsing at a store or someone who is walking the same direction as you. I have a little terrier that I walk all the time, I've met all kinds of people who just are interested in him. It's also cool if a girl has a dog because its usally instant rapport and conversation topic...except today when my dog growled at a pug who was with a hottie! That can cut the convo short lol.

Stores that you go in regularly, or even just a couple times.. There can be more rapport and comfort after seeing/ chatting with the same person a few times and then the topic of hanging out just comes up..instead of trying to rush it or have an agenda the first time you walk in. College libraries and dining halls/food courts. In line anywhere...just be ready to act on the 3 second rule.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Espi said:
1. Bookstore
2. Mall
(Hired Guns, particularly @ jewlery stores and cosmetic counters)
3. Downtown District During Lunch Hour
(Avoid moving targets; focus on restaurants)
4. Grocery Stores
(Read my posts)
5. College Campus
(I witness this all day)
I agree with this entire list. However, I'd start with somewhere that you personally enjoy that women who'd have a similar interest would visit. It helps if there is some common ground to start on.
 
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