"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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List the perks of having a girlfriend

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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We all know what the perks of not having a girlfriend is... but I'm curious to know what perks you guys have to having a long-term girlfriend.

I have a brother who's always been in long-term relationships, and I remember his girlfriend before bought him a X-box 360... then the next one a PS3.

I've always been the type to be choosy with who I date, never having a girlfriend. But finally, I have a keeper I think... she's buying me a PS3 for Christmas.

I haven't had an awesome Christmas present since I was 10 or something (divorced parents)!

Needless to say, I'm stoked! Each of my three brothers have a PS3, and live states away, or just in town, just out of the way with their fiancees or wives. I can finally join in with them online!

What perks are their for you guys? In anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If all it takes is a $300 piece of electronic equipment to make it worth it to you, then more power to you.
 
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Guaranteed regular sex. No more having to spend hours hanging out in sausagefest bars/clubs
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I still went to clubs even when I had a girlfriend because frankly nothing keeps your game tight like constantly talking to lots of women. When you focus on 1 that's when the inner nice guy starts to come out to ruin everything.
 
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Get cooked meals, get your place cleaned, keeps things organised, allows a partnership so you can chase your dreams if you don't have the time and money to do it otherwise, get one more best mate, as already said regular sex.

The perks far outweigh the cons.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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DarkShade said:
If all it takes is a $300 piece of electronic equipment to make it worth it to you, then more power to you.
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:rolleyes: Don't assume things.

The list was about listing things you wouldn't have the luxury to buy/afford by yourself, or the time to do yourself (as other people listed: cooking/cleaning/waste time at bars).

I can afford buying it, but I cannot justify buying it on my own, although I want one. She gives me the luxury to have a $300 piece of electronic equipment.

I don't get what your problem is...?
 
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