"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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List of things You can do for fun

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Well I am trying to make a list at home of all the things I can do, when I am alone and when I have company and when I am with friends, this way I never sit at home because I am too lazy to think of fun stuff to do.

So what are some things You guys do for fun.

So far I have

-movies
-Hiking
-Piantball
-Bar
-Club
-Concerts
-Beach

Anyone else
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sex.
 

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-movies
-Hiking
-Piantball
-Bar
-Club
-Concerts
-Beach
-Sex
-Town events
-Skateboarding
-Drink beer (not too much though)
-Train my body
-Window/women shopping at a busy mall or city
 

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-watch footy and drink beer
-talk about footy and drink beer
-drink and go to footy matches
-bet on footy matches
-drink beer and cheer / sing for Dinamo
-drink beer and fight, not only for Dinamo
-drink beer withouth reason
 

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shopping at malls ( or just roaming :)) also if you see a hot chick you can eat it :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Play board games
Send junk mail to credit card companies
Set alarm clocks at Walmart
Make collauges out of flyers
Sign up for free junk off the internet
Throw ketchup packages onto a busy street
Feed stray dogs laxatives
 

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go fishing

give yourself a manicure while sitting in a park.

polish your shoes outside on the porch.

Walk to the gas station/kwik-e-mart for a pack of gum: If woman cashier, offer piece of gum. Offer a piece of gum to everyone you pass on the way home.

take pet for a walk: dog, cat, iguana, snake on a leash.... I have a cat myself, he loves his leash.

Call a friend to make sure they are home, order a pizza to be delivered to their house, show up at their house for your share, don't go in. Don't spoil the fun by letting the cat out of the bag... let your friend answer the door for the pizza guy and watch the fun. Then bail your friend out with the cash and a have a laugh over some 'za.

fly a kite

build a water balloon trebuchet
 

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lol

Thats some funny stuff. lmao.

I like the pizza idea. Thats hilarious.

But seriously what can a man do when all his friends are busy or he doesnt have that many friends. Where can he go to have some fun.
 

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Your mom's house? (just kidding - couldn't resist)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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- Become a sociology professor
- Sit in on random lectures at the university and ask stupid questions (not recommended)
- Meditate, or try to
- Go to a place with a great view and just enjoy it for a while
- Find inner peace, achieve state of enlightenment
- Do cartwheels on the sidewalk
- Make happy music

If all else fails:
Buy some cheap burgers, go to a park, and start throwing them as high and as far as you can.
 

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If you live in a residential area, where there are many small (commerce spots?) you can always go there and make some friends. For example, your nearest 7-11. Do what vulpine did. Maybe get some fluff talk going on, flush and repeat, and soon you will have someone to spend time with. Do this same procedure with all local buissinesses. Like hair salon, gym maybe, order just a drink at your local restaurant and do the same thing, small talk, etc. Also do this at your local mall, chat with the people who work at these spots, make sure to do this only if they are NOT busy, if they are, you are just not being cool.

- Get a easy job.
- Wash your car.
- If you've got this kind of time, you should have time to get on a diet. Don't know what and when to eat? Well, there you go, study. I personaly recommend Anthony Ellis's program, that's a very solid start.
 
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