"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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List of things You can do for fun

ssj245

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Well I am trying to make a list at home of all the things I can do, when I am alone and when I have company and when I am with friends, this way I never sit at home because I am too lazy to think of fun stuff to do.

So what are some things You guys do for fun.

So far I have

-movies
-Hiking
-Piantball
-Bar
-Club
-Concerts
-Beach

Anyone else
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrS

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Sex.
 

Holland

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-movies
-Hiking
-Piantball
-Bar
-Club
-Concerts
-Beach
-Sex
-Town events
-Skateboarding
-Drink beer (not too much though)
-Train my body
-Window/women shopping at a busy mall or city
 

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-watch footy and drink beer
-talk about footy and drink beer
-drink and go to footy matches
-bet on footy matches
-drink beer and cheer / sing for Dinamo
-drink beer and fight, not only for Dinamo
-drink beer withouth reason
 

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shopping at malls ( or just roaming :)) also if you see a hot chick you can eat it :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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Play board games
Send junk mail to credit card companies
Set alarm clocks at Walmart
Make collauges out of flyers
Sign up for free junk off the internet
Throw ketchup packages onto a busy street
Feed stray dogs laxatives
 

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go fishing

give yourself a manicure while sitting in a park.

polish your shoes outside on the porch.

Walk to the gas station/kwik-e-mart for a pack of gum: If woman cashier, offer piece of gum. Offer a piece of gum to everyone you pass on the way home.

take pet for a walk: dog, cat, iguana, snake on a leash.... I have a cat myself, he loves his leash.

Call a friend to make sure they are home, order a pizza to be delivered to their house, show up at their house for your share, don't go in. Don't spoil the fun by letting the cat out of the bag... let your friend answer the door for the pizza guy and watch the fun. Then bail your friend out with the cash and a have a laugh over some 'za.

fly a kite

build a water balloon trebuchet
 

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lol

Thats some funny stuff. lmao.

I like the pizza idea. Thats hilarious.

But seriously what can a man do when all his friends are busy or he doesnt have that many friends. Where can he go to have some fun.
 

Vulpine

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Your mom's house? (just kidding - couldn't resist)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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- Become a sociology professor
- Sit in on random lectures at the university and ask stupid questions (not recommended)
- Meditate, or try to
- Go to a place with a great view and just enjoy it for a while
- Find inner peace, achieve state of enlightenment
- Do cartwheels on the sidewalk
- Make happy music

If all else fails:
Buy some cheap burgers, go to a park, and start throwing them as high and as far as you can.
 

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If you live in a residential area, where there are many small (commerce spots?) you can always go there and make some friends. For example, your nearest 7-11. Do what vulpine did. Maybe get some fluff talk going on, flush and repeat, and soon you will have someone to spend time with. Do this same procedure with all local buissinesses. Like hair salon, gym maybe, order just a drink at your local restaurant and do the same thing, small talk, etc. Also do this at your local mall, chat with the people who work at these spots, make sure to do this only if they are NOT busy, if they are, you are just not being cool.

- Get a easy job.
- Wash your car.
- If you've got this kind of time, you should have time to get on a diet. Don't know what and when to eat? Well, there you go, study. I personaly recommend Anthony Ellis's program, that's a very solid start.
 
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