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List of good and bad foods! HELP!?

CCKazi007

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I would like some help in making a list of good foods and bad foods so I can refine my current (American) diet. I used to live in the Pacific and since I moved to the U.S. my diet has been sh*t cuz everyone is telling me different things like MILK IS GOOD! or Peanut butter is BAD! My goal is to bulk up through HEALTHY FOODS so please add to the list. I included some quetions I need answers to so if you know what your talking about please HELP! Thanks.

Good Foods:

- Vegetables (Is there any bad vegs I should avoid?)
- Fruits (Is fruit juice bad for you? It has like 30 grams of sugar per serving!)
- Meat (Fish, lean red meat and white meat like turkey or chicken)
- Water
- Eggs?
- Peanut Butter

Bad Foods:

- Diary Products? (heard it was bad but WHY?)
- Food with large amounts of carbohydrates!? like pasta?
- Milk? (I've heard you couldn't digest the nutrients but I'm not sure!)
- Obviously fast foods (MacD and BK)
- Junk Foods like Pizza
- Soda
- ALL CANDY and CHOCOLATES
 

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Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

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I can give you a simple philosophy.

Bad :

Simple Carbs (Sugary foods, junk food, etc)
Saturated Fats
Sugar

Good :

Healthy Fats (Nuts, etc)
Complex Carbs (Pasta, Veggies)
PROTEIN

Other than that, a glass for Fat Free Milk once a day is fine. Fruits contain a lot of vitamins and minerals, but should not be abused due to being high in sugar.
 

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- Vegetables

can't go wrong with veggies, but the ones that are best for you are leafy and dark green, or beans of any kind (high in fiber). corn & carrots, though quite yummy, are generally less helpful, though by no means bad by themselves.

- Fruits

fruit juice has all the sugar & none of the fiber, so yes, it's bad.

more fiber = better, both for the fiber itself and b/c it slows sugar absorption and helps you feel full.

- Meat (Fish, lean red meat and white meat like turkey or chicken)

fatty fish are best (salmon, tuna). white meat is always good. lean red meats are also good, and don't fear some fat in your beef, pork or steak, just recognize that you need some saturated fat, but in moderation.

- Water

most of us don't get enough. it is in fact possible to get too much, but you have to try pretty hard. start with a gallon a day, and work towards two. but try to space it through the day.

- Eggs?

can't go wrong there.

- Peanut Butter

look for low sugar or no sugar added.

Bad Foods:

- Diary Products? (heard it was bad but WHY?)

dairy products, it really depends. some are high in fat, some are high in carbs, but they're all high in protein. you need to be selective here.

- Food with large amounts of carbohydrates!? like pasta?

go for whole grain products: whole wheat bread; whole wheat pasta. and moderate your portions. and watch out for dark "wheat" products that don't list whole wheat as their first ingredient, or have white flour, sugar, or high fructose corn syrup high on the ingredient list.

- Milk? (I've heard you couldn't digest the nutrients but I'm not sure!)

this depends. if you're lactose intolerant, just steer completely away from it. there's some debate around here about this. I highly recommend that you go fat free (skim), and moderate your portions, especially if you are watching your carbs. the protein in it is good stuff (where do you think they get whey and casein?), but it comes with a fair bit of simple sugar.

- Obviously fast foods (MacD and BK)

depends on your goals. I once lost a lot of body fat by eating at McDs 3x weekly but only eating one sandwich, no fries, and getting diet soda. But think of all the micronutrients I was missing, while still piling up the saturated fat & simple starchy white bread. if you're super skinny and on a "see food" diet, it's one way to get lots of calories.

- Junk Foods like Pizza

pizza has its place, but it mixes protein, carbs, and fat, especially if you like the kind I do: extra cheese & pepperoni. veggie pizzas aren't exactly healthy, but can represent a step in the right direction.

- Soda

sugar soda is right out. if you love soda, and aren't worried about artificial sweeteners (I'm not) then diet soda isn't terrible. but it has no nutritional value, I find the caffeine to be addictive, and there are better sources of caffeine anyway (Green & white teas have antioxidants & positive metabolic benefits).

- ALL CANDY and CHOCOLATES[/QUOTE]

if you take this to be deprivation, you'll never last. falling off the train is worse than cheating from time to time. and moderate intake of dark chocolate, for example, has some positive benefits. BUT it's all carb and no protein, which is a problem if it's crowding out the protein that you really need for muscle growth.

Definitely there are some ingredients you could avoid entirely and benefit enormously:

high fructose corn syrup and sugar
refined and/or "enriched" white flour
partially or fully hydrogenated oils (in the US, 0 trans fat on the label does NOT equal no trans fat, check the ingredients!)
 

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Check out the "Abs Diet" book by Men's Health. It's one of the best eating guides I've seen. Has lot's of ideas and really hits the mark with the need for fats and other foods for men to help with testosterone and health.
 

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rsxtreme said:
what about candy before a workout?
would be fine in controlled amounts, even better post-workout.

every food has its place, and I mean every food.. yeah even junk like McD's.
 
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