"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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List 5 Things That Make a Day go From Good to Great(or just make a day great)

ryan killa

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Ok, here's mine, and try not to repeat:

1. Eating steak: Nothing like coming home and eating steak. No matter what mood you are in, a steak can make things better. Of course, this does not apply for non-meat eaters.

2. Showers: These always make a day great. Nothing like waking up and feeling the warm water caressing your body. One day I'd like to take at least a 5 hour shower. That'd be awesome

3. The sun: I love, when, doing my daily weather ritual check, I see that it will be sunny, or simply seeing the sun shining when I wake up. You almost know the day will be great. Sunshine rocks.

4. Cards: Cards rule. Any game of cards is good, especially spades. You have to love spades. Playing cards with people is awesome. Cards can eeasily make a day great.

5. Eating at grandmas: Man, I love going to my grandmas. I walk in, only to be delighted by a cornecopia of food. Food of much variety. "Oh, you want checken." "Oh, you want veggies." "Hell, here, here's some shimp." Yep, going to grandmas always makes a day great.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1) You phone ringing all day. Lots of friends calling you and messaging you, inviting you to do stuff, to talk, etc.

2) Going out at night and have a blast

3) Being with your special girl

4) Having great sex

5) Succeeding in your activities. Either studies, work, sports or other hobbies.
 

Panda 2000

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Getting a level in Dungeons and Dragons!!!
 

doctoroxygen

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A great day for me starts with St. John's Wort.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Delicious

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you know what they say "the best part of waking up, is Folgers in your cup!"
 

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ima do this in order from waking up.

1 - Seeing that the sun aint out and its cloudy ( trust me ull understand why i say that if u live in miami)

2 - At work everybody is in a good mood, theres a nice environment

3 - having that delicious meel at lunch

4 - seeing some fine ass females walking on the sidewalk on your way back home from work (or anytime for that matter)

5 - having some good sex at night after a long day
 

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1: listening to sonata arctica
2: looking out the window to find the snow is gone.
3: Succesfully approaching a hot girl you've been eying for a while.
4: Good workout followed by a good meal.
5: taking a big dump in the morning...the kind where your **** is solid and all comes out in like 2 or 3 big logs.:D
 

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1. Wailing on the guitar

2. Chatting it up with a cute new girl inbetween classes

3. Returning to my dorm to hang out with my suitemates

4. Getting scalp massages from the girl next door

5. Busting my ass at the gym
 
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