everywomanshero
Master Don Juan
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One thing I've noticed about women is that in certain areas, and especially certain clubs women will have HUGE attitude. In most clubs I go to the attitudes are minimal to be honest. In those places with high attitude though, I've noticed it's usually paper thin. Like they will roll up and ask a friend what he said to her gf and they will try to act mad but I see right through it and see their lil smirk. It's actually their way of opening us, since they don't want to be seen as desperate enough to intentionally open us.
I don't even need to neg in this situation. Simple banter like the mean girls act is all I've ever needed to pass this. These women really aren't *****y at all, it's simply an act.
Well, everyone on here knows this. Unfortunately, there is still tons of guys in bars and especially online that fall for this *****y act and give an emotional reaction. I think that's one great thing about the evolution of dating info to guys. The ability to act *****y is totally dependant on guys being pushover.
How do I know this?
Where I live it is mostly African American or white boys who are ghetto. Down here women really can't get away with acting like that. Not only would someone yell at them, literally it is very dangerous thing to do. I am totally against violence don;t get me wrong and I hate alot of what I've seen happen here to both men and women. OTOH, when the risk of acting *****y carries significant odds of being made look stupid by small negs/banter, the women don't bother acting that way.
Now last night we go to a place that's all 90120 style whiteboys. The ***** shields were OUT of this world man, like I said paper thin, but it was downright funny. One girl tried to cut infront of me, I didnt want to loose my friends so I wouldnt let her. She tried to push me LOL. Of course she wasnt strong enough to move me, I just told her hands off and moved on. I saw another incident were a girl started screaming at some guys who were standing talking because she didnt want to have to walk around them. They were so lame they moved! Then I saw some girls tooling a guy into taking their pictures and lots to buy them drinks. Unreal!
Anyway, just thought it was humerous. I hope it doesn't start a US vs Them debate because that's counterproductive to our goals here. Nonetheless, it has proven to me without any doubt men *have* to have some balls. We were meant to run the world, and women do my leadership. They will push men to be men and leaders with this behavior unless we do it on our own. Ironically, I actually think men cause women to behave this way to get what they need from us.
I don't even need to neg in this situation. Simple banter like the mean girls act is all I've ever needed to pass this. These women really aren't *****y at all, it's simply an act.
Well, everyone on here knows this. Unfortunately, there is still tons of guys in bars and especially online that fall for this *****y act and give an emotional reaction. I think that's one great thing about the evolution of dating info to guys. The ability to act *****y is totally dependant on guys being pushover.
How do I know this?
Where I live it is mostly African American or white boys who are ghetto. Down here women really can't get away with acting like that. Not only would someone yell at them, literally it is very dangerous thing to do. I am totally against violence don;t get me wrong and I hate alot of what I've seen happen here to both men and women. OTOH, when the risk of acting *****y carries significant odds of being made look stupid by small negs/banter, the women don't bother acting that way.
Now last night we go to a place that's all 90120 style whiteboys. The ***** shields were OUT of this world man, like I said paper thin, but it was downright funny. One girl tried to cut infront of me, I didnt want to loose my friends so I wouldnt let her. She tried to push me LOL. Of course she wasnt strong enough to move me, I just told her hands off and moved on. I saw another incident were a girl started screaming at some guys who were standing talking because she didnt want to have to walk around them. They were so lame they moved! Then I saw some girls tooling a guy into taking their pictures and lots to buy them drinks. Unreal!
Anyway, just thought it was humerous. I hope it doesn't start a US vs Them debate because that's counterproductive to our goals here. Nonetheless, it has proven to me without any doubt men *have* to have some balls. We were meant to run the world, and women do my leadership. They will push men to be men and leaders with this behavior unless we do it on our own. Ironically, I actually think men cause women to behave this way to get what they need from us.