"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don the Legend

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Hey Mod's and Neo,

This link is not coming up in the Bible:

bondjamesbond - Start being a man for christsakes

If those links are broken, should I assume that those have been deleted?

Thanks,

Legend

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"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I delete stuff from the Tips forum on a semi-regular basis. If it's good, it stays. If not, it goes. Bondjamesbond wrote a lot of good tips, but apparantly I didn't think too much of that one.

I usually delete about 1/3 to 1/2 of the tips I read. I'm somewhere in October right now. So anything before that is pretty good, and anything after that is suspect and may be deleted at some point.
 

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Hey Legend,

How are ya doing?

My PC was formatted a few days ago and got trouble reinstalling it. The stupid harddisk wouldn't allow me to make more than one partion for the OS. All ends well... I'm back online.

I'll check the links within a next update. Thanks for the information!

Take care,
Neo
 

Don the Legend

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Hey Neo,

I doing good. I am mostly trying to self-improve myself. I taking a break from DJing and I am going back to the basics.

I am glad to see you still around. I hope things are going well with you.

Thanks for taking care of the Bible. It's been a great help!

Take Care,

Legend

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"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend

[This message has been edited by Don the Legend (edited 04-15-2002).]
 
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